The more you hate, The more you love???

Hi, Its not the break up that is hurting him. Its just because its your friend who dumped him. If that would be opposite this guy would not be so angry. I mean being dumped hurts more than having a break up. Its the humiliation added to the sense of discomfort. You had the habit of getting respect and affection for someone. And suddenly that person doesn't respect you anymore and don't feel the way he used to. It will certainly hurt you like hell. New relationships don't wipe that away. If this guy still loves your friend, whats the use of talking about that? A relationship based on future needs can't be complete. Most of the highly successful relationships I've seen was based on love and love alone. Anyways, I don't think, at the present situation, this guy will take some time to forget all about your friend. I don't know how much time he will take for that, but once he gets over it, he will turn into a very strong and wise man. I pray that God show him the right path of righteousness. Take care... God bless you..

the guy must really be so affected that he can no longer think of other stuffs than to be angry with your friend... pride usually prevails for men... he knows that he can no longer win back your friend and maybe because of that, he feels like he was defeated.

Some people have a hard time letting go of relationships. They feel as if they are being rejected if everyone doesn't like them. A reasonable communication might be the key in this case. Maybe a third party to help them stay civil during the conversation would be good. If he has a new girlfriend his focus should be on making that relationship work, not on the past. Good luck with everything!

Some people just can't let go. It could be that he is still in love with her, but it could be that he just has trouble letting go of anger. Some people just do not take rejection very well, and instead of just dealing with it they choose to be angry and resentful. It is pretty immature, but then again I don't know how your friend broke up with him. If she was really cruel about it or if she dumped him for someone else. Basically he got his feelings hurt and some people just don't know how to deal with that.

"well i think that hates is a part of love ....but a serious hate is a part of enemy ....consedering urs frens case her boyfren still loves her .....i can say so because i myself being the guy who got ditched ....and after couple of months we dated again and it worked that time......but after some some time we had a breakup agin....in fist itme i hated her for love .....but now i hate her like foolish fellows....fighting,hates,disguess are another side of the coin of love........so hateness is love if it is done in a lovable sence".........

Well, simple..it's just so hard to let go, most specially when they were better moments that your friend and his x used to had than the girl that he is with now. if he finds that unique experience of happiness to his new girl friend, i can tell you, the hate will disappear. some guys are still holding on to some of those old good moments, that eventually lead them blindly to hate and anger..thus, become full time enemies with the girl...particularly your friend.let him be, he will let it go, in time.