What will you do when someone maker abusive comments on your lovables

i will try to forgive if someone abuse me with words. but i will not forgive any one when some on make abusive comments on my lovables. there is no question i will hit him and make him go to the hospital

Each person has their own opinions and they speak them frequently. In a situation where it is my loved one it depends are they saying it about them or to them. If it is just about them then I am not going to go along with them and give them what they want, they want a reaction from you or someone else that also cares about the ones that you love. If they are saying it to them unless it is my child then I will wait and see if that person says anything or wants me to say anything. I am actually pretty protective over my sister even though we don't always agree on things. When someone says something about her, I put them in their place right then but I know that she can also take care of herself. If they said something about my son I would absolutely stand up to them in anyway needs be. Now about celebs I am not so sure about standing up and making a scene over it. I don't think they are trying for a reaction there, they are just stating their opinion and they have that right. It would be like someone yelling or cussing at you everytime you spoke your opinion about a celeb or something similar that you don't like. It would be a very boring world if everyone had the same opinion....