If your partner is cheating, would you want to know?

I would definitely want to know. If he is cheating on me, who knows what else he could be doing. Plus, what if he got an STD from the person he was cheating on me with. I believe we all deserve a faithful partner, so if I didn't have one, I'd like to know so I could kick him the curb.

I think it would be easier for me not to know. I love my husband so much, that the thought of him with another woman would probably throw me into a horrible depression. i remember we were rocky about 2 months after we got married because a girl hed been with before me, she had stolen 45000 dollars from him and left him while he was overseas, decided to pop back into his life after we got married and she wanted him back. well, he loved her, but he loved me too, and i didnt know anything about it until recently, but he was planning to leave me for her. while i was in the hospital miscarrying our child, he was busy out with her, making out. when he found out i was in the hospital he came there to see me, and i cried. he told me not to cry there was nothing i could do, and i looked at him and said "but i just lost a baby that i was having with the man i love most in this world" and he stopped. he took me home, and he went to his fathers. and his father told me after id found out all of that a few weeks ago, that my husband went to him and cried. and said he loved her but he loved me too, and what does he do? and his father told him "son you need to choose. do you want your wife, or do you want trash who steals your money and leaves you with nothing. you need to choose" and he chose me. i found this out after hed deployed, and he still doesnt know that i know, nor will i bring it up. i love that man with everything ive got. i felt betrayed when i found out everything, and i cried. she is still trying to get him back, but im not so much worried anymore. im pregnant with his child again, and hes coming home on leave when im due, its already approved. and sheleft him when he was deployed, but i wont do that. and he knows it. if you love who youre with and you can work it out, do it. im glad im a strong person, otherwise i would have freaked out on him, but i love him with everything ive got, so hes worth it.

If my fiance is cheating on me YES I want to know and I think I have the rigth to know as well. I don't need to be contracting anything and I most definatly would be dumping his butt and moving on. There is no need for cheating and I can honestly say I have no respect for cheaters.

You know what my motto is? “you can do whatever you want, just don’t let me know” when we talk about relationship and you’re going to cheat me because I lack of something or you love me lesser than before, I would rather let you tell me than let me work it out alone. But if it’s just an accident cheat or out of fun – don’t ever let me know..

Hey, Yes of course, because I think everyone has the right to know if their partner is cheating. If they were, then I think that shows no trust whatsoever, and if I would catch my partner doing it, I don't think I would have much mercy. If she wouldn't do it again, I would easily forgive her though. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!

yes, i am that kind of person that gets paranoid especially if i know or i have that gut feeling if my husband is cheating on me..so i MUST know! lol. i can't sleep if i cannot know the truth.

I would want to know if my partner is cheating me. For me honesty is a big deal and I can't be with someone who is cheating on me. I don't cheat to my partner so I don't deserve to be cheated. I deserved a better man and who ever cheats on me, I immediately left him. No second chances, no turning back. Past is past. Cheaters will always be cheaters. The truth shall set you free...

Of course, I would want to know. I wouldn't want to live a lie. I would want to know exactly what my partner is up to and why he is doing what he is doing. And if there is no hope for the relationship, I would want out and I would want to start living my life afresh. Cheers and happy Mylotting

Of course everybody wants to know and I would want to know. Knowing a partner is cheating can be very hurtful and difficult to accept but we just have to know . Reason I want to know is , I would want to know his reasons, what made him cheat and what seems to be wrong with me that made him cheat. Knowing all these somehow, maybe I can be enlightened with things that I could be doing wrong. Can be, I can change this ways and save up the relationship. Cheating can have to sides of stories though we knew valid reasons or not cheating still is not acceptable.

Of course I'd want to know. Every last detail. So I'd how much crap I'd have to beat out of him for daring to commit such a crime to our relationship. But seriously. Yes. I'd want to know. I don't want to be left in the dark when it comes to matters of the heart.

If my partner were cheating, I'd want to know. There are many different forms of cheating and many many different reasons why people cheat. I'd want to know and I'd also want to know why so I could better understand what's going on. It'd be painful, yes, but it'd be better in the long run.

i want to know it. So that if we can't patch things up, i'll be able to know my weaknesses and change it for the better. I know it will hurt a lot but we must face this challenge.Ü

In my eyes its not a question to want to know or not, it is more of that you should know. If he/she is cheating then they are not really into the relationship for all the right reasons. Cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it.

I would definately want to know. They say that ignorance is bliss but i would wanna know if my boyfriend is cheating on mr. I dont wanna be lied to. I would rather him tell me the truth. If he is cheating on me then that means he is not happy with me or im not giving him what he needs. So why not just let the relationship go. It wouldnt work out.

Hi, I would want to know if my partner was cheating on me.I think as you do about if my partner doesnt want to be with me then I should go. I told my ex-husband not to let the door hit him on the a*$ on his way out.It hurt of course but I got my dignity back after he left.