listening

United States
July 10, 2009 2:50pm CST
As i think it should be guy's are made to listen, while girl's are made to talk. Thats what this is all about, give your opinion.
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7 responses
@julbau18 (273)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
Somehow it is true. But there are some other guys who are talkative. Mostly the girls are known to be the talkative while guys are meant to just listen. Its okay as long as we can both understand each other.
• Canada
14 Jul 09
I'm afraid that this is not the case. Guys need to be heard out just as much as girls do. It would be unfair to unload your burden of thoughts and worries on your loved one when he isn't able to reciprocate. Not to mention if you do all the talking and he does all the listening.. after some time, well he may not actually be listening or may get extremely bored. I'm afraid this is what happens when men go looking for another mate or cheat on their partners, sometime, everyone wants to be listened to, and we are all on a journey to find that someone who will reciprocate.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
12 Jul 09
Hi, Not exactly like that. I have met men who are the worst talkers, I mean they talk and talk in such rapidity and vigor I feel women would be far below them. This is our general observation that women talk for they have more time to do so as opposed to men.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
11 Jul 09
i don't think talking depends on girl or boy. there are insticts of extrovertness and introvertness that makes one talk less or more. being a girl i talk very less and i am very reserved too. believe me, i have come across guys who have the capacity to talk for hours without stopping. hence, i feel it depends on the people. some love to share all that happened with then so they talk and some wish to be reserved so they talk less and to the point.
@coolcoder (2018)
• United States
11 Jul 09
I think that although that's true in a majority of cases, there are still some people who don't fit that particular stereotype. For me, though I'm a woman, I would much rather listen to people than talk all of the time. Constant talking keeps you from really hearing what another person is trying to say (plus it gets rather annoying after a little while, and all you want to do is either squeeze a pillow over your head or flat-out tell another person to shut up), and I'd much rather stay quiet and listen than chatter 24 hours a day.
@kaushikv (10)
• India
11 Jul 09
girls all over the world are well known for their speaking abilities. even in all houses you cold see girls dominating and commanding but men are just being mute spectators. professionally girls are usually appointed as receptionists and H.R's just for their speaking abilities. so i do think the same
@devmitra (274)
• India
11 Jul 09
Listening,in my opinion is a silent form of communication and communication is best effective when done in the bilateral method.A productive communication includes a careful hearing and adept response to the matters heard.you know,listening,response and communication are far above the gender consideration.If only the girls talk,and guys listen, eventually,one or both of them will get bored and the same results will hold if the condition is reversed.I repeat,listening is all about expression in silence,but it has to be accompanied with a response and that comes with talking.Thus no one should be made to listen or talk,rather,each should be included in the conversation by alternate hearing and talking.