greener grass

If you feel like your missing out on something bigger, then why are you settling?? If your not satisfied with your relationship - then you should break up with him. Because you're leading him on! He probably thinks that you have this GREAT thing between you and yet here you are thinking the grass is greener somewhere else? That's not right - to lead someone on. If you truly love him like you claim you do - then tell him you're not satisfied with your relationship and that you're not ready to settle for anything less. Don't pretend and don't settle. It's unfair to your significant other and to yourself. Good luck!

I wager most find out the reason when they have kids. Children are amazingly good at showing us how we ourselves act. What happens when you give a child a toy? He plays with it for about 2 hours or less, drops it in the backyard to be lost forever, and demands another toy. My parents have a second hand, swing set and slide in their back yard for my nephew to play on. They bought it for under $50 and it's covered in rust. I happen to be there when the neighbors kids came over to play. The mother marveled that they had just purchased a $1,000 bran new jungle set, that her husband had spent a whole weekend putting together, and here they were playing on our $50 rusty swing set. Here's the answer... there is a sick part of the human soul that inherently wants things it does not, or can not, have. We always believe that there is somehow something more, than what we saw in the "getting". When we're going after the girl or guy, we look at all their positive aspects. All the good qualities they have. But as soon as we "get" them, we start looking at their flaws, their hangups, their issues. Suddenly all those around us have all the good qualities, and like you said, the grass is greener. The problem is, the grass isn't greener. This is why most move-in unwed couples are on their 5 or 6th relationship, because each time they get into a new field, it turns dark and brown, and suddenly the next field is greener. If you are not married, I'd suggest you move out, stay single, and remain that way until you choose to pick someone and stay with them. If you are married, you should stay with whomever you are with, and realize you will feel exactly the same as you do now, with someone else.