After you have quarrelled with your partner...............

I actually never had a fight with my current boyfriend... we just say things we don't like about each other right away instead of keeping it in. but when i dated other guys, it's always the guy who had to make the first step... because i'm a woman, and women are never wrong...

Well personally i never wait to reconcilate even if he or me is in the wrong. I dont like being mad long. Life is so short. You really dont know whats in store for anybody future. Things could happen unexpecting and change everything for u or the other person. Something tragic could happen and you might not ever see that person again and how would that make u feel if you left out of the house without making up. Think about it, if you quarrelled and didnt make up and you had to leave to go to work or etc, if something happened to him and you never got the chance to apologized or tried to reconcile it would torture you and bother u really bad. You have to do the things and express your feelings for the ones you love before its to late cause life is not a promise or a guarantee. So dont wait to reconcile even if its not your fault. Do it because you love this person or u wont to be with this person.

Wrong? Who says I'm ever wrong? lol. Well, really the only time we fight is if something bothers me and I bring it up. Then he gets defensive and we fight. So he is in the wrong, not me and then I wait for him to make the move to make things right. if I was ever in the wrong, I would make the move to make things right.

if i realized that I was wrong, I would definitely approach her and apologize for my action and the hurt feelings i had caused. i did not mean to make her feel that way but i was overwhelmed by the emotions i felt at that time. there is no point of prolonging the agony and wasted emotions of being apart and not talking since i knew i was wrong in the first place. what's important is the relationship, and not the ego that was hurt.

I have quarrelled with him.I don't know why we always quarrel about something not that important.Each time I was the loser cause I wasn't good at it. I hate quarrelling. But he is always the first to change the embarrassed situation and talks to me a day later.He knows that after the quarrelling I would feel hurt and heartbreak.He may say sorry to me and comfort me.I like his gentle,but I still hate quarrelling.

We usually apologize at the same time. We both hate fighting and hurting each other. If I cry, he always apologizes right away, not that I mean to i just get frustrated. Part of being so passionate when one is in loves, is also a passion for everything else you like or dislike, and unfortunatly a passion for your battles of who is right and who is wrong. I think as long as you don't go to sleep mad, its all just part of being in a relationship.