Being newly single is a scary thing to some

I had a 19 year marriage and I know what you mean when you say you've been alone so much longer than you really have. We weren't meant to be, either. When I was on my own after all those years, I felt free--no longer cooking, cleaning, picking up after someone who treated me like a maid. I could do-and still can--anything I want, when I want and not answer to anyone. Being single is nice! Although I'm not interested in dating at all, I might not turn it down if a man asked me out. But I love being single. I really don't want to go through all that again, the insanity of love and all that. But if it happens, it happens. I just won't go looking for it. Now, you're a lot younger than I am so you may be impatient a little to get into another relationship but please, please don't push it. You need this time to "find" yourself, to gel as a person. You were married fairly young, right? Go places, do things, meet a lot of people, your confidence will grow as the days unwind and you discover that you can do anything you set your mind to. When you don't need a man in any way, shape or form--that's when you're probably ready for another relationship. Good luck!

Don't be scared. Just make sure that what you are looking for this time around will be there when you meet that certain person. There are times that you meet people that are so charming, but don't fall for it. Charm only lasted for a few minutes, after that, there should be something more than that. Treat it as window shopping, just look around first and don't settle until you find the one that you can't live without. Goodluck!!!

Iwas songle for three years before i met the guy im with now and it was definitly a lonely time in my life. But it was worth the wait. Its hard putting yourself out there for rejection or hurt, but sometimes in order to get hat we truly want we have to fall so hard until we reach our goal. I lve everything about the guy im with now. He was worth the climb.

Being newly single is a scary thing to some! Hello friend, It's been quite a while since I've been single but if I might offer some advice try to concentrate on getting yourself together. Do whatever it will take to try to pick up your self esteem. There is a lot of good that can come from a person spending time with their self. You could focus on trying to build up your spiritual life. Or you could spend time working on your career. Or doing voluteer work, or something good for others. Sit down and try to make a list of strong character traits that you would like to see in your next relationship then put the list in a place where you will see it every day, like a bathroom mirror.( According to the laws of attraction, ur dream man will appear. It would be even better if you find a picture of what you like and post it along with the character traits). Also spend time doing things that you haven't done in a while. There is so much that you could do, instead of worrying about men. At the right time, you will meet the one that is meant for you. In the meantime try to enjoy your life by taking it one day at a time. Believe that he will come along just in time and he will. Good luck to you and may the man of your dreams walk into your life before too long. God bless you.

Its ok to be single. Be open-minded and try to think that not all mens a same. Enjoy your life dating. Have friends first, getting to know each is much better. Relax and dont worry time will come there will be somebody for you. Appreciate mens arounds you. Focus yourself on being happy everyday. Always smile and you will meet your boy.

Why not? I think you're beautiful enough to keep men chasing you. Being sweet is a plus factor! Who wouldn't want a sweet girl in a time where everybody has become vicious? I've been single for more than a year now and yeah it kind of worries me because i'm already 29 but then i guess it's better than being in a relationship that's just doomed from the start. Right now i'm taking my time. I think you pretty much have a great personality and i guess being single is just good for a short period of time. Just enjoy your time as a single person. Keep in mind that not everybody has the opportunity to enjoy like singles. lol!

if you are still single than make friendship with me