what comes first,choice or destiny?

I think choice happen first. For an examples a poor girl meet a rich man and marry her. What happen is the girl choose him and what next is the girl becomes rich. She become rich not of her hard effort but with her first choice marrying the rich man. The outcome she acquire luxurious life and that is what we called destiny. other examples a man won in lotto. He could not win if he do not try to bet. Its his choice. Then he won and become millionaire and that his destiny. Their are things in life which we would like to achieve but fails to succeed. Some people think a person becomes what he becomes because of her choice and not simply depend on destiny. You will bear fruits, if you plant trees. But, if you do not try. That is your choice and it becomes what you are now.