Do you get along with your IN-LAWS? Or do you call them monster in law?
@crippledcrossface (53)
United States
July 11, 2009 2:13am CST
Do u get along with your in laws? for me, i would say I do get along with them but i am not that close. They said that when u marry your loved ones its like your marrying the whole family already. hahaha. Sometimes its just annoying to me that they are around i know its my husband's family but they should know their limitations (very harsh!) Sometimes they get on my nerves too, instead of me and my husband would go out and have some fun,they would call EARLY in the morning and letting my husband know that they will come in to our house to have some lunch! it's not only 2 people would be in our apartment as our "guest"...i would say 8 more people would knock on the door . they want to turn on the ac because its too hot? freakin a! i know i am mean but they see each other almost everyday,im tired of their faces.They would stay the whole day or 8 hours to be exact in our place..hahaha i dont want to be rude with them but they need to know that their son/brother already have a new family. and I need space seeing them. I usually see my parents on the weekends. with them? i see them EVERY FREAKIN DAY!!! Seriously, am i mean? lol How bout u? do you get along with them? or do u think differently? hahaha im so harsh! let me know... I know i am mean and selfish because i Just want my husband to be on my side all the time.hahah
2 responses
@rainmark (4302)
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13 Jul 09
In my case i can get along with my in-laws i have no problem with my dad just mum sometimes, i fed up with her coz she sometimes talk alot blah blah blah. very bossy! hehehe. Their house is far from us so we occassionally see each other. So i so much break from her being bossy. But apart from that were alright.
All i can say is talk to your in-laws about what you feel, set them an appoinment for thier time to visit. That's little bit harsh to them but that's better than you're hiding it inside your heart. If not, try to move house away from them, so you seldom see them hehehe.
Cheers.
@crippledcrossface (53)
• United States
13 Jul 09
I wish i can move my house away from them..lol. well, i'll try to talk to them or atleast mybe ill tell my husband to tell them..i dont know.. but lately they've seem to calm down tho. My mom in law is not around thats why...ahahaha
@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
11 Jul 09
I honestly get along with my in-laws but I still call her monster-in-law because she can be nice and all but wait when she gets feisty. She can be so nice but at the same time you will never know what she is thinking of on a certain topic not unless she opens up to you. I had an issue with my monster-on-law back when me and my son were staying in my parents place. We had issues on how my son would be raised and my in-laws just have difficult insights on certain things that it goes against what I like.
@crippledcrossface (53)
• United States
11 Jul 09
Yep that's true,different people have different perceptions of how things will work. or how would you raise your own son. lol.and that is so annoying at times too.instead of your own ideas and stuff they get into your business.hahaha thanks for replying!!!! =) have a nice day sublime.... =) smile alwys! peace out
