Why do you think that some people easily find fault of someone?

In general, everybody in this world love to defend himself. No body sees his own fault as everyman is selfish in this world. Even in sweet relationship of mother - daughter. Don't raise your eyebrow. I am giving you an example of an incident that happened in front of my self within our housing complex. A family of father-mother- and single daughter was about to celebrate their Single daughters' birthday. From morning in their flat of around 700 sqft. the cook was cooking for the guests of around 50 persons. The gas cylinder was burst out. On the instance the mother & father ran out of the flat forgetting the presence of their single child. Luckily at the moment they came out of danger they recalled that their daughter was inside the flat. They immediately rushed in and rescued their child. They loved their child - no doubt. But at the moment their life was in stake they thought for themselves ONLY - not that of their daughter. It is an example of natural SELFISHNESS. So in this world of selfishness everybody will try to defend himself. When they found other people encroaching their "SELF-RIGHTs" - which is depend on their self interest - not relevant to the others RIGHTS. They usually find others fault. Everyday we face a lot of such incidents. Suppose you are driving, you never down your speed to pass over other car but you may demand other people is their to leave your way. If they don't leave the way to pass over their car, you curse them. But if you think that that car is also some problem to give you pass then you may find the easy way to live without seeing others fault.

Hello friend, Welcome to the MyLot community. Yes, I have come across many such people who can't stop finding faults in others and pointing them out all the time.They never judge themselves on the same scale. They think they are perfect and hence have the right to keep on saying rubbish to others. thanks for informing me about the book. Will try to go through it. Cheers!