are you usually let others around you do right things?

I make choices for myself and try to do the right thing, and hope others realise what is to be done by watching, sometimes that's the only thing you can do and then what is right by you may not be right by them, each person's reality is different for example, as I see it I have no parents and no family to back me up while my hubby has his parents and a good job and his life has been good uptill now while I keep craving for him to understand me and my pint of view...so what may be right for me may not be right for him

hi yadian you have to analyze the person first - are they able to accept your ideas - is it worth the trouble once you have determine this than only you proceed with your idea givings I have come across all this people who at the end do not appreciate you but instead tell tales of you being "busy body" cheers