Love Marriage or arranged?
By monishavakil
@monishavakil (1019)
India
July 11, 2009 12:46pm CST
what do you? Do love marriages last longer than Arranged or visa versa?
6 responses
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
28 Sep 09
Hey,
I can't really say this for everyone, but for me I would prefer to have a marriage that wasn't arranged. I personally would hate it if my parents would choose the woman for me, because they have bad tastes. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
11 Jul 09
Hello, my grandmother had an aranged marriage but that was her first husband.She later met my grandfather and they got married and had two daughters. My mother was the oldest and her and my father have been married almost 47 years...on July 17 it will be 47 years. I think love marriages might have a better chance of lasting but maybe it depends on the two who are married.I was married before and I got divorced. Depends on the couple.
@med889 (5941)
•
13 Jul 09
A marriage whether arranged or love will last longer depending on the two person who are willing to build up a long and friutful relationship. I am neither against one because I believe that the love two people share and the will they share are stronger than what I think. They should be both understanding to understand and know what they want in life, they should be both mature to be able to tackle all difficulties in their live instead of always saying that it is impossible, they should be loving and caring to saty together instead of seraching for love outside the marriage, they should be responsible to hold tight the home they have build. So a marriage is full of ingredients and it all depends on the two people to make it sweet and tasty at the same time.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
12 Jul 09
arranged marriage last longer because of the couples valued so much the instructions given to them by their parents. love marriage does take too long also but it's not always. most of the people engaging into having arranged marriage are rich people so they have a very big reason to why one forces to love the other though he/she knew that s/he'll be sacrificing his/her own happiness.
@nigarish (70)
• India
12 Jul 09
"i will go for arranged marriage because i hope its worth....i think love marriages are not to much stable.....they are stable at hearts but not stable at mind....for healthy living love is just not enough...you need to much more than a lover when i healthy living is concern...in love marriages i saw that they care they love each other but they cant able to adjust themselves with each other...in arranged marriages men women has a cleared outline in their mind that they have to adjust any case...in arrange marriages if one of the person tries to be more lovable than it an advantage...but in love marriages they think that the base of their marriage is love relationship then men has to love his wife more than it was before marriage and vice versa...and here the crush arises....there are many situations in which love marriages seems to going down...."therefore arranged marriages rocks!!!!!1