Future
By kawalnarang
@kawalnarang (1095)
Trinidad And Tobago
July 11, 2009 2:59pm CST
A friend once mentioned to me a few years ago,,when his father asked him,, Will u get married to the girl u love,, or the girl who loves you?,, he answered straightforward,," I' ll choose the girl who loves me,",My idea is that there should be some attraction from both side,, It can't be equal always,,,Any ideas
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7 responses
@mrakobesie (1246)
• United States
11 Jul 09
it might not be always equal, but both people should love each other. it might take very long to find this relationship, but sooner or later, there will be the one who can share with you this great feeling of love.
@kawalnarang (1095)
• Trinidad And Tobago
11 Jul 09
No matter what I am lucky,, there are probs in everyday life ,, We should fight and get forward,, Thanks ,,Wish u Best
@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
12 Jul 09
If I were him I'm going to choose also the girl that loves me than the girl I love. I want to find a guy that love me more than I love him. In return you can teach yourself to love him or her. It is difficult if you love someone but he or she don't love you back. It is better to find someone that loves you.
@kawalnarang (1095)
• Trinidad And Tobago
11 Jul 09
Thanks for being what u are,,best wishes,, enjoy life ,,Respect u,,
@bamrahkirti (1821)
• India
16 Jul 09
Hi Kawal
For me both parties should have soft corners for each other.If one party is in love but the other is not then i think the relationship would not be healthy and long lasting.To be able to reciprocate each others feelings,it is necessary to have same frame of mind and emotions for each other.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
11 Jul 09
Equal isn't possible this side of Heaven. But absolutely, there should be a two way street. If you are attracted to her, and she's not attracted to you, or the reverse, then you need to move on.
It is possible to form a relationship built on a one-way attraction. The problem is, which ever is not attracted, eventually they will meet someone they are attracted to. Then there will be a very high temptation to break the relationship, and many will get hurt in the process.
If you are not attracted to someone who's trying to make something from the relationship, put a stop to it, and explain your not interested, and move on. If you sense the other person is not attracted to you, break it off, and find someone who is.
@kawalnarang (1095)
• Trinidad And Tobago
11 Jul 09
verry intelligent response,, I agree,, before time is wasted and there is hate,, Changing the plan is better
@PSmith721 (286)
• United States
11 Jul 09
Hopefully, it will be a mutual love. I don't think that it can last with only one side loving and the other just there. Does that make sense to you? It sounds right in my head, but it doesn't look right on the computer. Hope this will help.
