What are the things you are attracted to in men?
By tazzakazz
@tazzakazz (59)
Canada
July 11, 2009 3:05pm CST
Let's be honest, men are HOT!... But why? What do we see in them? What is their best characteristics? What makes a good man? Just wondering all your thoughts and perhaps what you believe is the best kind of man that you would want in your life. From physical attraction to personality characteristics...?
6 responses
@abragar03 (8)
• United States
13 Jul 09
I love a man who has a great sense of humor and who is not afraid to laugh at himself. I am sometimes too serious for my own good so a guy who can make me laugh and make me feel comfortable acting silly and crazy attracts my radar. He also needs to be a family man. And for some strange reason, I am attracted to bald men...please don't ask me why! I think because it takes a man who is comfortable in his own skin to show off his bear head like that. And last, but not least, I like a man who has goals and wants to move forward in life, and who wants to share those things with his woman.
@tazzakazz (59)
• Canada
14 Jul 09
Yea there is nothing seemingly greater than a man comfortable in his own skin. This way he is not so serious and can laugh and make you laugh too. We all have our own little things that we find attractive in guys, mine happens to be arms and hands while yours is a bald head.. =) funny, but true. I hope if you havent already you will meet a guy who will share goals and move ahead with you in life.
Take Care! Happy Mylotting!
@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
12 Jul 09
The height should matter. I almost objected once to a wedding because of incompatible height. The girl is more than a head taller. That means she would be the one reaching for things in high places. Seriously though, the male must be as intellectually at par with you. You will have a lifelong series of conversations. You do not want to get bored, do you. Add there the sense of humor, a good singing voice, a little gentlemanly on one side and rough on the other. How does that sound to you?
@tazzakazz (59)
• Canada
12 Jul 09
I agree, you must be at least close to intellectually on par. Like you said, there is many a conversation that must happen and communication as we know it is very important to our intimate relationships. Also humor, a good singing voice and gentle/rough sounds like good aspects of a good man!
Take care! and happy Mylotting!
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@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
12 Jul 09
i think the most important is having the right chemistry. u both will have fun no matter what u do because u r meant for one another, belong to each other and r soulmates.
i like pretty eyes and nice hair. a nice body is also a plus.
@justbeingtiffany (1156)
• United States
12 Jul 09
well the first thing i'm attracted to in a men is his looks. regardless if he's hot or not. i like ether a really nice looking guy. or a really geeky looking guy i think geeks are so cool and smart and there little outfits make me smile. its turns me on haha and i like my guy to be healthy and fit. or have muscles and be buff. i want a guy that i can work out with cause i look working out on equipment and running. and a guy best characteristic first he has to be funny. then honest and caring. what makes a man good is his over all personality and what he really like deep down. i know i probably won't find a guy that has all this but i bet theres a guy who has all these things and probably wants me to have more. so i can settle for less. 8(
@emmasmomma89 (266)
• United States
11 Jul 09
for me im most attracted to their personality. At first i wasnt really attracted to my husband, but his personality is what drew me to him. Hes so nice, and hes funny, and just everything i want in a guy. We went out a few times and now we've been married almost a year, and we've got a baby on the way! hes deployed and we talk on the phone everyday, and we always have things to talk about!Its wierd, but i just love that man so much. I could never picture myself with anyone else ever again. When i was a teenager, if me and someone broke up it was whatever, i could look at another guy and be like ooooh, but now, i cant even look in another guys direction and be attracted to them. I just love my husband so much.
@tazzakazz (59)
• Canada
12 Jul 09
Hi emmasmomma89 thanks for your comment. I am happy to hear that you love your husband so much and you have got a great new family. You mentioned that he is so nice and funny, everything you would want in a guy. You just seem confident in knowing that you do and you know why. It's great! =)
Take care!
@R0CKABILLYBABE (136)
• United States
11 Jul 09
I personaly am into the inside of a man personality sense of humar , affection are big major factors for me. The thing that attracts me to a man physicaly would have to be his height and his smile for some odd reason. Tall men get me lol
@tazzakazz (59)
• Canada
12 Jul 09
I agree with you completely, sense of humor is very important, as is a guy's affection towards you. It is a very big turn on for them to be confident and interested in you. I love a nice smile, as do you. I think a smile is something extremely special and a guy that is taller than me is definitely a turn on. Thanks for your response!