What exactly does first love mean?
By colydf
@colydf (913)
China
July 12, 2009 11:46am CST
Sometimes, I just think about this. And I wonder if first love mean only when you two love each other ? If I just have a unrequited love towards one guy, is this first love? When other people ask me who is my first love, I just do not know how to answer. Because I am not sure what exactly dose it mean. Maybe sometimes you love one guy however he never knows you, is this first love?
3 responses
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
13 Jul 09
Hello colydf do you already had a boyfriend? If you had it already, how did you feel about him? You like him or you love him? If you love him, you really care for him so much than just a friend. If you love him, you feel like you always want to see him. If you really love him, you can sacrifice anything in favor of him. If you love him, you feel like you won't last a day without him...have you experience it already?
Well, if you never felt that from all of your passed boyfriends I think you never had yet a first love. If there would still coming and you feel already what I described above then that's your first love.
First love is different from first crush...I hope I make myself understood.
Good luck on your love life...
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@devmitra (274)
• India
12 Jul 09
when for the first time you feel the warmth of care,unconditional trust,extreme affection and and there occurs a mutual feeling of the same warmth in your heart and soul too,and you want that guy to be with you always...you are in your first love..
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@ngfyuan (3)
• China
13 Jul 09
Hi colydf, in my mind sometimes love is just a feeling at a specific time. some gay told me love is not about two persons. maybe you fall in love with one person and you try all you can to make him happy. But that gay may never know you ever loved him.That is ok. you know at that time he lived at your heart and his happyness made you warm.
