Is there something you won't do in front of your spouse?

United States
July 13, 2009 4:50pm CST
I was reading a discussion and it reminded me of something I've always thought. If I were to ever get married, I wouldn't want my husband to see me with hairy legs or underarms. I don't know why. It's just personal thing. Like I don't find women, or men duh, with hairy legs and underarms ugly or anything. So, is there something you won't do in front of your spouse? Why? How long have you been married? If not, why? You can tell me if there's something you plan on not doing if you aren't married right now.
5 responses
@Galena (9110)
14 Jul 09
not really. I poo, wee, shave, empty my mooncup.... if you love someone they mean more to you than bowel movements.
• United States
14 Jul 09
What's a mooncup?
@abby01 (65)
• United States
14 Jul 09
Wha is mooncup?
@Galena (9110)
19 Jul 09
it's a menstrual cup.
@abby01 (65)
• United States
14 Jul 09
I'm not an expert at this but I say you should be really comfortable with your partner. Well, that's me, if the person is really comfortable with me to where they're not afraid to do anything around me shows/tells me that that's how much they love me :)
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
13 Jul 09
I think I had a couple of hangups in the beginning but not now. We have been together for 17 years and during that time I think we have seen and done pretty much everything in front of each other.
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
13 Jul 09
I was married for twenty plus years the first time around (seven years this time). There's nothing that you can really hide from your spouse if you stay together for any length of time. You get to see your spouse in all their glory as well as all their "ugliness" and the opposite is true, they get to see you too. The only thing I would not want my spouse to see is me getting too friendly with someone else
• United States
13 Jul 09
I cannot pass gas in front of my husband. I dont know why, but ive always been like that. I try not to pass gas in front of anyone, but everyone has there slips where you just cant hold it anymore, so you try and cover it up. My husband has no problems passing gas in front of me. His are so bad, one time he did a silent one in a room near our staircase, me, him and the baby were in there, and in seconds the room wreaked of poo and fish. It was aweful, and he goes "whats wrong baby?" and starts laughing. I ran out, completely forgetting the baby. Then i army crawled back in there because i remembered learning about fire, stay low to the floor to avoid smoke. Well, in this case, it didnt help me any, and i dragged the baby out. It was so bad she cried. I yelled for my little sister and her boyfriend to go in the room to get me something, because they had to smell that. They couldnt even get to the staircase before yeling "oh my goodness! thats disgusting!" and all the while my husband is in tears laughing so hard. He also has no problems going number 2 on the toilet with the door open. And that smells horrible as well, but he doesnt care. He gets upset saying that if i love him, ill fart in front of him, because when you fart, it means youre comfortable with whoever youre with. I mean, im very comfortable with him, i was just raised its rude to cut the cheese around people. Im sure ill get over it someday, i just feel its rude to pass gas purposefully, when it smells that bad. My husband cannot produce gas that doesnt smell. Hes run men out of a tent they were in over in afghanistan, and it was a 200 man tent. So imagine how it is in one small room.