What should be the first gift?
By hireshd
@hireshd (490)
India
July 14, 2009 9:44am CST
Hi Mylotters recently I proposed a girl and she too agreed, pls pour in your suggestions for the perfect first gift. She stays in a different country and I cant meet her personally for another year.
7 responses
@tuliorowena (350)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
Hi hireshd, its so nice of you thinking for another gift. Well proposing to her i think its enough for her to feel your love. But if you still like to give her a gift, i suggest you give her something sweet and not expensive. Maybe a huge teddy bear. And send her flowers with the bear. This will melt her heart. =) Happy mylotting!
@nigarish (70)
• India
15 Jul 09
hi man congratulations...you are in a bit typical situation...well i suggest you to keep in touch with her and call her and have talk on the cell phone...i think this could a better option than to send her a gift via currier like blaze flash.....but if want to send her a gift...then send her few greeting or post cards!!!i hope this will work....best of luck dudes..
@hireshd (490)
• India
15 Jul 09
Thanks nigarish for your response :) Yeah since we are in different locations it bit different and seriously I cant think of anything else since the timings do not match its bit difficult for us to talk with each other too :(
Anyways greeting cards do seem a very good idead!!
@mrakobesie (1246)
• United States
14 Jul 09
I think it should be something personalized. you can get something with her picture on it, or something related to things she loves doing... I personally don't like stamp gifts, i like gifts that mean something to this person but not others. One of the best gifts i got for example was all Liberty Meadow books, i love Frank Cho, so it was a perfect gift for me, but most girls wouldn't like it lol...
@proxima14 (196)
• Philippines
14 Jul 09
That will depend on the type of personality she has. You might want to consider something you've done yourself or personalized.
@cwachid (160)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 09
During my time-there are no handphone and internet, Mostly I just send my best photo and letter every week. Sometime I just call her when I get extra money. Even on birthday, I am not give a gift/present (only greeting card). After marriage, She show me one box all of my letter. I am very surprised about this... She told me that she always waiting my letter... I would suggested to send of your hobby as gift.
@ChrysanTflower (1607)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 09
Waw! congratz =)
I think better you give her something that can make her remember you when she see it. hmm..what about a nice dress or clothes? she can wear it anywhere and remember you or feel that you're near her. That clothes can be worn too at the day when you two meet personally another year,, I suggest you to give her a simple t-shirt. buy two t-shirt that has same color or picture on it. give one to your girl and the other one for you. wear it at the day when you two meet^^,,
Well, do the best and congratulations^^,,
