Why would you look at a member's personal page?...

@aseretdd (13730)
Philippines
July 14, 2009 10:03am CST
I do that from time to time... especially when a member wrote this interesting response... that i just to know something about this person... like how long has this person been a mylot member... the country of origin... or just check out the kind of discussion this persoun starts... When it comes to my friends... it's to see if they are still active or if they were somewhat banned from mylot... because if one is banned we can no longer access their personal page... I find the personal page difficult to maneuver... that is why mine is so simple... unlike some members who even have a playlist of songs... and even a youtube video... i wonder how they do that?... Why would you look at a member's personal page... do you leave a comment when you do?... and did you have a hard time designing your mylot personal page?...
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24 responses
• Philippines
14 Aug 09
Yes, i do, most specially if the person hasn't made any kind of discussions late. sometimes just to know if they are recently active or had made some comments or response. but lastly, to see if they have made some changes in their profile.
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
16 Aug 09
That is a fair enough reason... but i always wonder why you changed your username... did your first account get banned?... or you just wanted to start all over again here in mylot... Thanks for the response...
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
17 Aug 09
Well, i am just glad you came back... and i agree... your current account is a good one since you already have a blue 10 star with only 1000+ posts... keep it up...
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• Philippines
16 Aug 09
banned/suspended/deleted/canceled what ever, i don't even know what to call it anymore. but one thing for sure, i was fooled to think that my Greeneagle account would ever go back after three months. after that i just gave up and start over. it seems i like this one better, and better maintained good composure and friendship with everyone else.Have a great day!
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@kayedanda (1850)
• Philippines
14 Jul 09
designing my page took three minutes. tee hee. it was just a couple of banner links to where i earn money from. i chose the colors that i liked and voila! it has been that way since time immemorial. i look at a friend's page to see the last time that they have logged in, and also to send a message or leave a comment if I need to tell them something. photos are another reason why i look at profile pages. when somebody invites me to be a friend, i also check out their profile pages. and i also don't know how they post song playlists
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
I wish mylot has a guide on how we can easily manipulate our personal page... not all members are good when it comes to something like that... and you are lucky to be able to design yours in 3 minutes... Thanks for the response...
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
welcome!!!
@kayedanda (1850)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
thanks for the BR!
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
30 Jul 09
I might look at a member's page to request their friendship, or if we are already friends to see what discussions they have started in case I may have missed some that I might want to respond to. I may also take a look at a members page to see if they are still an active member of mylot. I'm sure there some other reasons, but I can't think of any more of them at the moment. No, I usually don't leave comments on my friends pages, though I have in the past and still do once in a blue moon. I know, I'm bad! I don't have playlists or youtube videos on my page, but I did modify it so it was more like my myspace page. What can I say, I wanted it to stand out! LOL As far as how to do it, it isn't really all that difficult. If you really want to learn I might be able to help you with some step by step instructions. Just PM and let me know. Happy mylotting!
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
31 Jul 09
I haven't checked your newly overhauled profile page yet... i will do that after i writing this comment... and we have the same reasons for looking at someone else's profile page... and like you... i leave a comment once in a blue moon... i think i should start changing that... Thanks for the response...
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
16 Jul 09
I look at them before deciding whether to accept someone as a myLot friend, and that is about the only time. Sometimes to see when the last time they logged in if someone has been quiet for a long time. I prefer simple pages. Some of them are way too cluttered, and they don't remove offensive remarks that others leave there as spam...which reminds me, I should go take a look to see if mine needs editing.
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
21 Jul 09
This also reminds me to remove those dneero conversations on my page... they look nice but they are beginning to clutter my page... i usually check you profile to look at the photos you uploaded... Thanks for the response...
@rajeshfgh (1629)
• India
15 Jul 09
I usually do it to know more about the person. If the post is pertaining to some region I would like to check out the member's nationality and sometimes it may just be out of keen interest in the profile picture. Mine is also pretty simple and I like it so. So profile pages takes ages to open....
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
21 Jul 09
I agree... that happens to my page too... there are times that it would take forever to open and it would be best to keep it as simple as possible just to save loading time... Thanks for the response...
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
So far as I am a member here I did not yet look at their personal profile dont have the idea for this. Now that I heard this in your discussion might be check it to my friends if can look at. So busy with my schedules thats why I did not have this. Its nice to have this things specially if that friend is so sharing to us and have a nice opinions in our discussions. Thanks for having this topic.
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
21 Jul 09
You are almost in you 1,000th post and you haven't checked out your own or other member's profile page... that can be odd since the only way we can invite others to be our friend is to go to their page... Thanks for the response...
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
15 Jul 09
There are usually two reasons why I would check a members personal page, firstly if someone requests my friendship, then I will go and check their personal page out to see where they come from, and if they have set there page up! No desrespect to those that haven't but sometimes you go to a personal page and there's nothing there! How do you expect to strike up a friendship if you know nothing about them. Secondly if a good friend of mine hasn't been seen around Mylot for some time then I go and check and leave a message for them, although having said that I tend to use the PM function to send them a message to see if they are ok. I have to admit that I don't tend to change my personal page much if at all, I am always worried that if I start to meddle I will lose it! I am a strong believer in if it's not broken don't fix it.
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
21 Jul 09
There are some members who have nothing on their page... and they are the new ones who prefer to collect friends and not do anything else... i make it a point not to accept the invitation... Thanks for the response...
• India
15 Jul 09
I too look at a member’s profile page. Sometime there are discussions you know which you think of responding to, but have missed out due to various reasons. I keep in mind the person who started the discussion and whenever I come across that user, I’ll invariably go to the profile page to dig out that discussion. In the process, I just look thru…the person’s age, country of residence, interests and so on…and if there are photos, its all the more interesting. I love browsing thru the photos. My profile page has no design apart from the avatar…I am not a very designing type, in any case, I thought of many colours as background against my white rose but none appealed. White looks best to my unimaginative eyes.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Jul 09
I very rarely see profiles. May be for some updates. I mainly see what are the discussions that particular user has started.plus sometimes the country from where the user belongs.
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
21 Jul 09
Do you mean you rarely update you profile or personal page?... well, i don't do that often too... but there are times when i feel like just being patient and would play around my profile... but then... after a few tries... i would always give up... Thanks for the response...
• United Arab Emirates
15 Jul 09
Its actually a good thing to do that, one reason simply being you can know whether the person shares the same interests as yours. Its news for me that some members have videos and playlists uploaded, that is neat!
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
21 Jul 09
Yes, very neat indeed... you should check out some... they have really great songs on their playlist... but the main problem is that videos and playlists tend to make the page load a little slower... Thanks for the response... welcome to mylot and i hope you enjoy every minute of your stay here...
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
15 Jul 09
Hello aseretdd, I seldom check a member's profile unless once in a blue moon, when I check my own profile, I tend to check at some of the members' profile too. Like you, if someone responded to my discussion and I found it quite interesting, I would get excited to know a bit about the respondent. As for my own profile, I don't really bother too much about it and I make it as simple as it could be cause of one reason - I don't know how to make it awesome like some members did!
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
Same here... i find it difficult to manipulate the colors and other aspects of the personal page... that is why i also keep it as simple as possible... there are times when i envy those who are good at designing the layout... but i just do not have the time and sometime the patience to really make mine very nice... Thanks for the response...
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@sblossom (2168)
15 Jul 09
i think i have almost similar reason like you do. i like to search on personal page then i can have a vague idea about the member. i think it's a good design of the website. we are not like blind fly to post and post, we also like a guest sometimes to visit our friends in their living room.it's my feeling. i think from our personal page we can know some history and demand of the owner.
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
21 Jul 09
Yes, and the personal page also shows a little of the members personality... since some tend to really work their page... it is really nice that we have our own page here... even if a lot of members find it hard to manipulate it... Thanks for the response...
@punkincat (214)
• United States
15 Jul 09
I check for friend requests. Once I got a rude responce I checked the profile sure enough it was from a kid, I responded to them like a rude kid. I have also checked the profile to see if my response would be understood ( if I refer to something 15 years or more them I want to know if they would get it or not ) I haven't looked at many and so far have had no trouble with personal page. Haven't left any comments.
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
A lot of members don't put their real age... but mine is the real one... some adult members tend to respond like kids... because they can be rude and don't think if they will hurt others through their words... Thanks for the response...
@Elaine77 (315)
• China
15 Jul 09
Hi there, I usually check a member's personal page when I found his comments interesting to check out his homepage in case we have something in common. I do check their personal page when they send me an friend request, and I usually check my friends' personal page to find that did they start any discussions that interests me. I leaves comments to my friends personal page which we were well connected, have a lot of things in common. I dont alway do the designing to my mylot personal page cause what I have now is good enough for me. Have a nice day mylotting.
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
You are fairly new here in mylot... so, i congratulate you in being able to do all the things you wrote... i have been here almost 3 years now... and it actually took me quite some time to really connect with some of my friends... Thanks for the response... welcome to mylot and i hope you enjoy every minute of your stay here...
@imsilver (1665)
• Canada
14 Jul 09
I look at a person's profile page when they send me an friend request. I like to look through discussions they've started or responded to to make sure that we actually have somethings in common before I add them as a friend. I don't do much with my own profile page. I can't even remember the last time I looked at it; never mind edited it. Which means I should probably go check it out... LOL.
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
I think so too... it would be nice to check out our own profile page from time to time... but then... it is not really a requirement to make our personal page as beautiful or full of stuff as the others... Thanks for the response...
@xfahctor (14118)
• Lancaster, New Hampshire
14 Jul 09
I spend a lot of time in the politics section, so I often find it usefull to get a better idea of a persons age and location. People of different ages and locations will have greatly varying points of views, or in many cases, may not have a lot of knowlege on a prticular subject. I try not to disrciminate based on either though. I have seen many young people here who display remarkable intelligence and matureity. I have also seen many older folks who display a great deal of ignorance and imaturity.
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
Well, some people do not really put their true age on their profile... but some do... like me and most of my friends... but i stay away for politics... since that usually is the start of not so good arguments... some people are just to narrow minded when it comes to respecting the opinion of others... Thanks for the response..
• Philippines
14 Jul 09
It really depends on me. I just only look at a member's personal page if I found a discussion that really interests me a lot and would like to comment more on some of his/her discussions. It is just very easy to put a playlist. You just have to copy the code of your playlist and paste it on your personal page here in myLot, edit mode.
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
I think i would have to try that... but i don't think i would be keeping it for long because a playlist tend to make the page load very slow... good thing we all have a personal page where we can easily see the discussion started and responded by other members... Thanks for the response...
• United States
14 Jul 09
I usually look at a person's personal page if they send me a friend request, or if we tend to comment on a lot of the same discussions and I want to send them one. I like getting to know people with interests similar to mine, plus I'll be able to know what discussions they are responding to...most likely, I'll want to respond to them too. A personal page is somewhat like a social networking profile. If someone sounds interesting by what they write, I get interested in knowing more of what they're like. I don't know how they post music or videos...I've never really been good with that! :)
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
I just posted a video in my profile... well, that is because i need to show it to my boss since her nephew was featured there... i thought it was hard but it was as easy as posting html... but there is always a trick in doing that... Thanks for the response...
@moon1688 (144)
• China
14 Jul 09
i'm curious to do so!
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
I hope you can explain why you are curious... it is always nice to write more here... because that is how we earn here in mylot... Thanks for the response... welcome to mylot and i hope you enjoy every minute of your stay here...
• United States
14 Jul 09
No i would never look at a persons personal page i don't think. Note Ive only used my lot for about a day but no unless i actually no the person i really wouldn't care enough to learn about them. But if i had respond to many of there posts ahh maybe i mean sure why not you no.
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
Yes, why not... as long as you are quite interested in the discussion that they started... then that is a good enough reason to check out their personal page... Thanks for the response... welcome to mylot and i hope you enjoy every minute of your stay here...