is privacy ok in your married life?

That is a very hard question.. lol. well, actually i don't really check my husbands cellfone..once in awhile tho but not like every single day. mybe once a month. I trust him tho, but u know sumtyms just being nosy. . if he talks to his friends its ok... i dont really get to his business sumtyms. ive experienced already of having no privacy with my ex bf. Its so hard! seems that he needs to know every single thing u need to do even when u go to the bathroom at what time ... and im on the fone with him 24/7 even when sleeping! that is so crazy and too much! privacy would be nice but pls no secretss. just mybe to talk w friends and all that. cuz if it sucks when u hold dem by the neck,they get so crazy...so right now i give him privacy if he wants to...i asked him stuff and he would answer nicely... so i guess it really depends.. =)