How did u know that your BF/GF really love's you?
By phesaru
@phesaru (300)
Philippines
July 15, 2009 3:14am CST
well honestly speaking i never been in loved in my 19 yrs but yes i try to have a crushes but i never try to have a bf..i don't know what the feelings of one person that she/he have partner in their life.But Im asking this question bcoz i want you guys help me to know if the boy/girl really love you by how? *)
Someone's wants to advice me??
8 responses
@periwinklez (138)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
hhmmm...kinda young for you to fall in love my dear pal..better study first and take care of those things that could give you a bright future.hahahah! acting as if im your big sis???lol....anyways, bout your question...it's a feeling..different one compared to a platonic kind of love..kinda strange feeling that makes you say "this one really loves me"..but beware!coz he might be sending you a false signal..you'll just know it..and gals are certainly gifted with 99% correct intuition..ahahah!
@phesaru (300)
• Philippines
16 Jul 09
thank you for the concern! yea your ryt im too young to fall inlove but they are saying that AGE DOESN'T MATTER =P...i have a mind and i know wat is good for me and wat is bad,thats why until now i didn't try to have a bf =D.. Im just wondering if someday i got bf and how should i know if he really loves me or not *)
@periwinklez (138)
• Philippines
17 Jul 09
that's really good to hear from you..just try to focus first on important things..don't haste..it'll just come at the right place and time..it's better to wait for sometime than haste and be kissed by a lot of wrong prince.hahahah!!
@larish (2202)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
I was able to decipher if my husband really loves me because we have been friends for 11 years and he said that through all those years he never stop loving me despite of having a girlfriend then. I believe him because he still pursue me after 11 years of friendship. We have been bf/gf for additional 4 years and he never disappoints me. He always had extra effort to show me how much he care for me. Now we are one year married and time has make our love grow stronger.
@mrakobesie (1246)
• United States
15 Jul 09
when i went away to help my sick grandmother, my bf spent all his money on phone cards and was eating nothing but nuts and dried fruits for some time... he makes me food all the time too... i can also see it in his eyes when he looks at me, his eyes are fool of love and tenderness when he looks at me. he also gets mad at me when i say i don't like something about me lol... so i say it on purpose because he looks very cute when he is mad lol
@309413813 (12)
• China
15 Jul 09
I think love is a big matter.there is no standard.I can only give you some tips i know.
1.if he loves you,he will stand by the side facing the car while you two are crossint the street.
2.if he loves you,he will not power off the cellphone untill you say goodnight.
3.if he loves you,he will look at you or read books instead of walking away while tou are sleeping.
4.if he loves you,he will wait untill you disappear and shut the door and then go back home.
5.if he loves you,he will embarce you while you are crying.
6.if he loves you,he will not be willing to die for you,because he knows,there will be no one who loves that much like him.
7,if he loves you,he will qurrel with you that is because he really cares of you.
8.if he loves you,he will put his friedegg in your plate just because you like eating it.
9,if he loves you,he may lie to you,and then feel sorry and heartbroken.
10,if he loves you ,he may call you,telling you that he just wants to hear your voice.
that is what my bf does to me,we have met for three years,we really love eachother.when there is someone who really loves you.you can feel it.
@koalapenguin (2707)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
you will get to know when you feel something you have never felt before.Ü
@lealuvy2j (1986)
• Philippines
16 Jul 09
I found out that my boyfriend really loves me when I found out that I am going to be assigned to a place far away from him because of my job. He did not give up the relationship even if it is going to be a long-distance one. I am really grateful to God for him. He also makes it a point to visit me here at least every other week even if the travel time is long. :)
@nigarish (70)
• India
15 Jul 09
as far as love is concern my dear friend there is no love test .....you will feel when the luxuries of love when he/she love you.......as far your query is concern ,when someone will love you your heart will automatically sends you a message that the particular boy loves you...and you will feel that inside you....but remind you this path of love is not too easy...thou it gives you to fell heavenly feelings and thought .....but the cost you bear is the severe painful nights!!!!!