Why do some people behaves like this ?
By lamester01
@lamester01 (104)
Singapore
July 15, 2009 9:18am CST
he is a selffish person who only thinks of himself. Just for example, we are doing experiment in the lab as a group. As the apparatus are to be shared among the group members, instructions were given out with the technician, he did not inform the rest of the group but kept those apparatus for his own.. ended up we(the ones who got scolded) to realize everything at the end of the practical. sighz. why is there such a person ?
4 responses
@a_manick (879)
• India
15 Jul 09
Its the nature of selfish person you cannot change their attitude by any means,only we have to be extra cautious with that person and to learn to tackle the situation without be least affected.nowadays where ever you go you could find such people,so learn to live among such people.
@lamester01 (104)
• Singapore
20 Jul 09
but sometimes because of their way of selfishness i can't stand it and immediately show off the unhappiness in front of them..
@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
15 Jul 09
Sharing and teamwork are the basics of competence in modern life. It is a shame for him as a student. If he is not aware of it, and continue this way even if you tell him in another occasion, he is sure to meet problems in his work. Life will teach him a bigger lesson.
On you part, you could take more initiative to take a favorable position in the first time in a friendly way so that he could be your partner and contribute his right lot in the joint project. Cheers!
@lamester01 (104)
• Singapore
20 Jul 09
i did discussed with some of my friends who are in the same team and decided to tolerate it as we are left with a few of the experiments =D
@surfermac (465)
• India
15 Jul 09
thats part of the human nature
he/she has to change his attitude or mentality or else no one can do anything
@lamester01 (104)
• Singapore
20 Jul 09
yea, i agree too. therefore, i just got to tolerate this for another 1and the half year.. haha
@devmitra (274)
• India
15 Jul 09
Helo.Why one,you would meet so many such persons around.You just need to handle the situation with a little bit of patience and care.Talk to the guy and explain your feelings to him.Let him know that his behaviour is not that acceptable and that it would be lovely if he behaved in a cordial way.I think when you express yourself to someone,you get more sure of what to do in the next step.all the best.
@lamester01 (104)
• Singapore
20 Jul 09
i talked to my other friends, one of them suggested to confront that person by telling him about his behaviour and etc. but thinking of the consequences, perhaps once we said all these in front of him, we might not be friends anymore and it might be awkward especially we are in the same team when doing experiments ..
