do u speak ur mind? Be straightforward... please???? could you?

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Before i was afraid to do such thing... Im afraid that people think that im so harsh... that i have no feeling at all! Or they think... im not a human, because i hurt them if im being straightforward... But now, im learning how to be straightforward without losing myself as a human... i make that joke or make it "lesser harsh in the way to say that" or make it sounds relaxing and not emphasizing.... i know, if i say the truth... the truth that may hurt... because the truth is flawless... that able to open the flaws.... Once a friend asked... Do i usually wear something properly? If i dont care, i say "yeah... i like your style' but actually she is not... because the color is not matching at all, and she looks like weird... Her outfit is not proper to the situation and condition... but because you;'re my friend... i care about you. i tell her, she is better to wear this one and try to match with this item.. and so on... until she realize that what im saying actually that the proper outfit is supposed to be like that. But somehow, i say it direct to the point... im tired to make it too long, since i just have to across the street!!!what do you think? i saw in youtube, there;s an actor, who looks so cool and serious... but because he is too straightforward, what he says is become totally funny!!! i dont think that being straightforward is harsh, somehow its able to make people more relax because you will hear the truth! and not all people able to do so!!!