Do you think your life will have no meaning with out him/her?
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
8 responses
@eshaan (6188)
• India
17 Jul 09
Life is life vijayanths, and i know that though you love someone a lot.....then too you will have to live without him/her...life will not be meaningless, without my hubby....as i will have many responsibilities..though i pray to God that dont show me a day without him....as i can't even think of that....but meaning is not lost, you have new duties towards your children, new way of life, all has meaning....but yes, there are many such people apart from my hubby that i can't even think life without them...some freinds are close to heart 
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
17 Jul 09
Your frank discussions always amaze me eshaan. that is what I like in you a lot.I pray God and you will never have to spend a day with out him in your whole life. (let him live beyond 100 and you 95, ok?)
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
hmnnn...i don't think so,i have lived my life before i have come to know and married him,so,if i lost him,my life would still be the same just like the time when i haven't met and married him.=)
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
15 Jul 09
I undertsand, who knows? May be you would find a person with out whom your life is meaningless. Best wishes, jaiho.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
My friend,even if i will found my true love and lost him,i know my life would not be meaningless.A husband or wife or a lover is not the only person to make our life meaningful.Remember,we are not born just to love someone and be loved by someone.We are here in this world with a purpose,have u ever asked yourself the meaning of your existence?Does your existence to this life is all about your wife or partner?
Life must not end when we lost our husband/wife.My life would be meaningless if i lost my God and my kids.Becoz,God can give me another man to love me more than the one i lost,but a husband can't give me God who gave my life and my kids.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
16 Jul 09
I don't think of my life in these terms. The only meaning I am looking for is not in people. People come and go. They die and leave you but you remain with yourself. This is how I see life.
@darksorrow (4666)
• Bangladesh
15 Jul 09
Well i have someone without whom my life is meaningless now. I am glad to have her.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
15 Jul 09
it should not be only now, but for ever-that is my wishes to you friend,thanks for the response.
@darksorrow (4666)
• Bangladesh
15 Jul 09
Thanks for the wishes.
What i mean is before i had no one and i was living my life. But now if she is not in to my life then my life will be meaningless.
What i mean is before i had no one and i was living my life. But now if she is not in to my life then my life will be meaningless.@darksorrow (4666)
• Bangladesh
15 Jul 09
@dozhou, you are like my GF. Ready for the worst.lol I don't think i will be like you in this life time.lol
@debster65 (53)
• United States
16 Jul 09
That is the most insane thinking ! I know i don't need NO man to validate who I am . My life has lots of meaning because I love me today and that is a lesson I need to learn a long time ago . Just being alive and on this earth for my spiritual soul to grow is the big picture & reason why I am here .So NO man is the reason why I live & have meaning for my life. Nor can I lay that on my kids either . I have in the past but have learned not to do that today .
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
17 Jul 09
Oh, I respect your opinions debster. I know people would have different views on this subject
@mdvarghese (1789)
• Bangalore, India
15 Jul 09
Hi..Vijayanths
I think my life will have no meaning without my wife. She have love and affection with me.
@manoj1412001 (63)
• India
15 Jul 09
i don't think so because life will have meaning if you achieve some thing but not for a reason that you have he/her in your life. so achieve something to have a meaning to your life.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
15 Jul 09
You should achieve in life, that is very important. But you can have aperson who is the meaning of your life.this is my opinion.
