Why r all girls so same and why do they always hurt guys?

hii hollowheart this is srisruthimk.This is my new id as my other account is not working.I like your question but oe thing you should understand girls dont intentionally hurt guys.There is always a famous saying men are from mars and women are from venus.If you get a chance try to read this book.men and women have deifferent characters and mannerisms but what makes them stay together is their love for each other and art of adjusting.If this is not proper then both of you will get hurt and the relationship may break.So it is not a guy or a gals mistake alone to hurt.It just so happens by misunderstanding. Have you ever asked your gal what she expects from you?.generally gals have lot of expectations from their partner which most of them dont come true.At the same time gals dont hurt when their partner takes care of them and supports them.First try understanding each other.

Not trying to be rude in this post, but just coming in and saying "why are girls mean to me" is a bit lame. Next time you go out with someone don't fall in love on the first date. If you have a good time, and yet she won't answer your calls that realize it is over and MOVE ON!!! To me you sound like a guy who falls in love on the first date and starts telling his parents he found "The One" after the second date. Maybe it is not the girls, maybe you have to high of expectations of your relationships.

I use to say that all girl were the same too.. but then i meet my girlfriend, and i would have to say that not all girls are the same. You just have to go with the bad ones and the ones that hurt you to get to the one that will put you above anything and never hurt you.

There are some things that really need to be said on this subject. Guys, you honestly think that girls are out to make your life hell? If that's the case then you really need a wake up call. You have to think back, on what you are doing, not doing, saying, and treating your female before you go off and make these assumptions. When a woman goes into a relationship that she feels safe and loved in, then everything will move on pretty smoothly, but when something is done or said then that's then the fighting starts and the acusing begins. I was put in this very position. My fiancee and I used to fight like school kids. He would get mad at every little thing that I did, and make a big deal out of nothing on most occasions. Even when I didn't do anything wrong, I still was the one he blamed first, or came to first. He drives me insane when he starts up, and has had me living in fear that he was going to leave me over something that I didn't even mean to or didn't even do for that matter; but I love him with all my heart and every time we got into a fight, even when we broke up, we still proved our love by working things out and promising to be there for each other when it happened again. You have to really watch what you say or how you act around your girl until you know her really well. I have seen this many times, where a guy gets with a girl and he thinks he knows all about them, so he treats her like they've been together for all their lives. This can cause serious conflict because not knowing what her soft spots are, and then hitting them, that can cause her to fly off the handle or to get hurt. When a woman feels threatened or cornered, she will normally try to save herself and get out of that position that she was put in. If there's something that you think she's doing wrong, or something that you may be doing wrong, then rather than breaking up, you both should talk it through and try to make things work. Getting to know the other is the key to a great relationship, it's best to take things slow and be patient.

girls have been made beautiful by god .thos thing has been taken into advantage by girls and they become proudy.

Helo.I think you are suffering from inferiority complex,somewhere or the other.You have to shed any such feelings,if you do have any and try to be a little more communicative.You can expect answers only when you ask a question and so is the case with discussion and conversations.You have to express yourself in a firm and bold way,so that the person before you also responds.all the best.

I can see from this post that to some extent I know exactly where you are coming from. Self confidence has always been my problem too. One thing you need to know. Women are not as judgmental as you seem to think. What it comes down to is attitude. If you are shy and can't talk or when you do talk it's all about you it soon becomes very tiring for that other person. We shy people tend to do that. It is all about us. We don't think or feel that way but if we are objective we soon see that it is true. Try to see what it would be like if when you find a girl that you like you would approach her with only her in mind. Not yourself and how much you like her or wish that she would like you but just try your best to put the focus on her. You will be shocked at the difference. I used to be on a mailing list of a guy that teaches average guys what they need to do to attract women. Now this guy spent years trying to figure out why he could not get dates and what he now teaches is the result of that research. I am married now so have not received his email for some time so I freely admit I am not up to date on him. His name is David DeAngelo. You may already know about him. This link will provide a lot of information that you will love to read and you can enter his mailing list to get even more. Of course in the end he is trying to sell his e-book but you will get a lot of information for free. Nothing is more attractive to women that self confidence. It is something you have to learn and it is quite possible to do that. Here is the link: http://www.datingclass.com/shyguy/index.shtml As you will find out it is all about confidence. Within a short period of time a woman will place you in one of two categories. Friend or possible lover. This will help you be the latter.

Well first of all it does go both ways, some guys can be just as hurtful as some girls can be. I think at times some expect to much from someone and when they are let down that is when they are hurt. Although there are some out there that seem to be game players and they just dont care as long as they get what they want. Take your time in finding the one, they say that there is someone out there for everyone, it just sometimes takes time to find that one that we can live with and have a happy life with. GOOD LUCK!

You sound bitter my friend. Well, you must have been deeply in love, and been left in the end. Life, is always like that. People just come and go. Pain, is so bearable if you think it is. It's not that just the girls who caused pains, but it's also the boys. Just be thankful that you have been hurt, because, that pain will mold you into a better person. Be thankful that you got hurt, because you are NORMAL. I've cried a lot too, because of some guys. But, then, I made sure, that I'm never gonna cry for that same person again. I did move on, stronger, prettier..(hahah) and smarter. Just be happy my friend!

I think everyone hurts others one way or the other. I have been hurt by many people, even my own family but the person who most hurts me is myself. Whenever I think of the people who hurt me, I am hurting myself by the thought. They hurt me one time and I hurt myself many times by recalling how they hurt me.

Well i think you getting it all wrong here.Its not always the girls who do it i guess.I have been hurt, and it was a guy.my sister and my friends were hurt and the reasons for all of them were guys, but we have never asked this question that you asked it.I think no one hurts anyone, its our expectation that hurt us at end.Who said that when we love someone we should get that same love in return?i dont think so, when you love just love selfless and without expectations then i dont think you or i or anyone will get hurt.And at last its our own rights to live and love we can choose to stay and leave when we want..Love never tell us and entres our life then how would betrayal?

Not all girls are the same...I can't speak for everyone but as a woman myself, I've never purposely hurt anyone, man or otherwise. Before I married I had one sole purpose for dating: finding my soul mate. Therefore I never played "games" in my relationships or used anyone...and if I felt someone was not marriage material, we would end the relationship on good terms. I have seen many men do horrible things in relationships...more bad men than good...yet I understand not all men are horrible creatures. Could you explain what girls keep doing to hurt you? I don't know how to appropriately respond without knowing exactly what it is that is hurting you. Either way, I hope you find a woman who will treat you right, so you know we aren't all bad. :)

It's a two way thing buys do the same to girls :) LOL Both do the same until you find the one I guess

i dont think all of the girls do that. in my case i had these past relationships where the guy is asking for a break up after taking my money. in some reasons i really dont know why the other girls do that. i know how it hurts whenever a guy or a girl hurts someone. but think about this. those experiences will teach you to be a stronger person and you will be more cautious in terms of having a reltionship. why dont you just try to test your girl during your first week of relationship. hope this one helps

Hi, I understand your feeling, girls may act same in some part, but not all the girls are same, they also have different characters, emotions, feelings.Just like not all the boys act the same way, maybe one girl hurt you, but this doesn't mean every girl will hurt you, I'm sure you will find that girl and your true love.

Why are all girls the same? Hello hollowheart, sorry to hear that your heart is hurting. Well let me explain something to you. I have heard the expression before that all girls are the same but I don't believe it. Just as I've heard the expression all guys are dogs. I don't believe that one either. I just think it really all depends upon the person. I would have to wonder if you did anything to the girl that hurt you. Did you do something to make her mad? Sometimes a man can be too nice and too giving and there are girls that would take advantage of him then leave him high and dry. If this is what happened to you I'm sorry to hear it but maybe it will teach you to toughen up just a bit. Hope you don't think that I"m trying to be mean to you but I'm just trying to give it to you straight, happy mylot!

Well well it seems someone has been getting the raw end of the deal as far as liasions with girls are concerned. Well its a two way traffic ,there are a lot of instances when it is we the guys who end up treating them shabily. To held the entire womnfolk culpable for your experience is simply not rational my friend . You simply need to have a sophiticated screening process to determine the kind of girls you will allow to enter your life. It seems as if you are consorting with the wrong kind of people

heeyy i can understand ur painn bt dont u knw tht we men's have made them to do all this. as u knw if one bad man do bad thngs wd somon it wil shameless for all men's girls are very good hearted and also a loveable one bt due to sum problems or for their happiness thy do all thiss

Hey, that is so unfair... Why do you men generalize that all women are heartbreakers? Not all women are the same. The only problem is that you've fallen for the wrong girl. It could either be something is wrong with you or you are not compatible with each other. No, two people are the same. Maybe both of your ideas do not coincide and never cross each other. That is the problem with you men who keep blaming all the women. If you are really certain that all women are like that, then how come other men get so lucky to be with someone. It maybe difficult to convince you because you have grown an anger towards the opposite gender. But if you just get to know the person better, before starting a relationship with someone, then I guess it would not turn out that way.

hey great ques every time girls hurts the guys but i relly dont know why? why only 10% girls are playing game like cricket football e.t.c because 90% girls plays with boys life hihihihihi