why aren't you married yet?!!!?????

well, im sharing with you the same sentiment. im SINGLE. im only 22 but i empathize with you. whenever my friends bring their boyfriends and introduce them to me, i feel a little bit alarmed since im not having one. but here´s the thing, you have to focus on the benefits you get of being single. hey, its not the end of the world yet.! my teacher got married when she was 40, my friend tied the knot when she reached 32. my mom got married when she was 35. also, do not forget to pimp yourself up. be more charming, be outgoing, fix your hair, wear make up, be fragrant all the time. and be CLEAN AND NEAT. a lot of my guy friends said that they are attracted mostly to neat girls. do not hurry yourself, coz you might end up being emptyhanded. be nice, be yourself,. your guy is jut out there, wait for him. make him notice you. good luck!

Hi bhabytart.. Some girl just like you too...they aren't married yet..why..cause nobody knows where and when are the right men will found. Pls do not lose heart..surely you will have one..in the right time and the right place. Have a nice day

I have been getting that question for quite some time now. And truthfully, it has become so annoying really. Some people think that because you are not in a relationship right now there is something wrong with you. Could be that, you have a bad attitude. Now, with all honesty, I feel satisfied with where I am right now. I do not even look for someone and I do not feel that I am missing something. I even feel that I am better this way than with someone else. I do not see myself getting married at all and I am happy the way I am. What I am most happy about is that fact that I am still alive and healthy.

If the right man has not found you go fined him.

well, if you want we can get to know each other here.lolz just kidding, i dunno about you not getting a boyfriend, but i guess i have similar reasons that my family doesn't understand that i need a partner too. sometimes my mom would ask silly questions like at what age am i gonna get married? +30? never talk about it again. but my main for not having one is that i have not fallen inlove yet.

That question is not raised much. I am 31 & believe that some people just are not ready (or not made) for the responsiblities attached with being married. Being someone that tends to shy away from social gatherings & is by choice cold & distant, being married to me would be a desolate experience. So why subject someone to a lifetime of misery. One has to remember that your actions have a direct impact on the feelings of those close to you. Look at the program "Cheaters", should people like that be allowed to influence your daily life? Gloomy things aside, we are also not cast in stone & we can change. Bhabytart one thing I have noticed & is that women use gestures more when trying to convey feelings of affection. Unfortunately men are generally oblivious to this form of communication, we respond best to direct communication.

Well you know, bhabytart, you won't get a knock at the door by Prince Charming singing, "True Love or You Give Me Fever," you have to go out and present yourself. If you do I'm sure it won't be long before you will have that Prince Charming knocking on your door. There are plenty of boys with the same dreams as you. Good luck and good hunting.

People don't realize how this question can sound. Don't let them pressure you into feeling that you are any less of a person simply because you are single. I am divorced and have been single for years...wouldn't change it for the world. I love living on my own. I get bugged all the time about finding a man to live with or getting married again.....Sorry but NO!!! My cousin got married last year for the first time. She was 50. She is beautiful and just chose to take her time....develop her career. Her goal was not to get married....she just stumbled across the right guy for her. I think if you just live your life in a way that you are happy, you will find someone...not to make you happy but to share your happiness with.

hehehehe thats ok.you will find a boyfriend. i dont ask self that question cause im very young to be marrying.im still in school.i have 3brothers and sisters to help take care of.i not have a boyfriend this time.=) i had one when in high school but now in college, no one.hehehe good not to let what other person always say to you get inside your head.if you really want boyfriend,you will find one sooner or later.and get married=) those other people only need to wait when you are ready and not force you to be marrying. goodluck=)

Usually people don't ask this question to a person directly because they think that it is too personal. In my country, it is considered that it is the responsibility of parents to find partners for their kids. So, everybody will ask only parents and not the respective person. My parents have heard the same a few times, and I have seen that it made my mom very upset.

I get asked that question alot and it makes me mad too. I want to be married and have kids but its like impossible to meet people. I think that because its so easy for some people to find boyfriends or girlfriends they think that everyone is so luck and that something is wrong with you because you havent had that luck. I have a friend that just doesn't understand what I mean when I say its hard to meet people cause she is the type that the minute she breaks up with some guy she'll meet another one down the street and be in a relationship again. I just dont have that type of personality just to date someone cause I want a boyfriend. Half the guys my friend dates she isn't even attracted to them she just wants a boyfriend. Im really hope the saying Good things come to those who wait is true and I hope I dont have to wait to much longer :)

I am not married yet because it's my choice.it is my choice not to get married yet because I want to enjoy my freedom.I have a lot of learning and growing up to do.I have a lot of dreams to achieve,so I have to work on them while I still can.I decided not to get married to save myself from complications of a relationship.I am still learning to love the most important person in this world - ME.

Hi there bhabytart!Ü I have not encountered such question because i am only 20 years old. Thirty years is very young and you should not hurry yourself when it comes to getting married. How come you do not have any boyfriend? How about posting a picture here. Or maybe one of your friends like you but you don't like them. Maybe you are kind of "choosy" when it comes to having a partner. Anyways, i hope you could find your man! God bless!

I couldn't find for myself because I have much higher expectations about him.

Hello... I married when I was 20 and between my time, sometimes I feel like there is no reason for us to get married cuz we fought so bad during the first two years. I still with the same man and may be the rest of my life. It took me so long, yes soooo long to make my man to understand me well... he is not that good yet but I can accept what he got now. Sometimes, a good man is right next to you but you just ignoring him. i mean you never put your attention out there... that's why. it is ok to get marry later but make sure you find the right one... otherwise you will end up with tear and pain

me and my partner have lived together for almost three years now, and we always get that question from those who know that we are not married. i say, why hurry? marriage is a permanent institution that you don't just go into because people are asking you to. and as for you, i feel where you are coming from. i have aunts who are past 30 and who are constantly being chided for not being married at such an age. seeing them, i know that they are happy with their lives and not hurrying on finding the right guy. so that's what you should do. enjoy your life as a single woman and take the time to find the right guy.

I used to answer that with "I am not yet ready. I still have to earn for the future." Then that line gets repeated too many times so I changed it to "I am still looking for the right person." Then after some more years, and this is what I am using now, I resorted to "No one is ready to marry me yet." A few more years and I might answer them with "I am happy being single" or "Some people are meant to be single" or maybe a blunt "I'm tired looking and I'm getting tired answering such question" or a sarcastic "Don't you have any other question to ask?". Whichever line I will use later, I'm sure anyone who will ask such question will not find me smiling.

bcz girls need only cashh

I also get asked this very same question and it tends to make me feel sad as well. I try to stay positive and just say I havnt met the right one yet. Dont be to hard on yourself seriously I am and im sure plenty of others are in the same boat. Beind single and dating is tough this I know. I just try to keep a positive attitude.

Sometimes i ask myself same questions too. I think that everybody experienced same things. I hope that you can find your Prince soon, and have an awesome marriage like you always dream.