Are you a good listener?

July 16, 2009 9:36am CST
When it comes to peoples problems or secrets are you a good listener, do you see yourself as a reliable person when it comes to people needing you? Have a say. :-)
7 responses
• India
22 Jul 09
I am a good listener. I am also lising the problems of other peoples problems and i will give good and correct decissions. My friends will openly speak that i will give good decissions.
• China
20 Jul 09
be frankly, i don't know whether i am a good listener or not. but one day i found out that all of my close frinds like keep talking when they are with me. they tell me a lot of things. i am not very fond of listening about their privacies but i also do not hate it. and i also can keep secrets for them but the reason is because i am so lasy that i don't want to waste time on talsing about others' things. hehe
• Philippines
16 Jul 09
Hello beacauseithelps! I believe i am a good listener. I love having conversation with my friends. I first listen to them then after awhile i am giving my straight opinion. Its good to feel that my friends are trusting me with their story or problems. So as a gratitude to this i lend all my ears to them. Happy mylotting!
@julbau18 (273)
• Philippines
17 Jul 09
I am not a good listener at all times. It depends on the topic or situation. Sometimes I am more good as a speaker. But I listen very well when someone needs me.
• United States
16 Jul 09
I do think that I am a good listener. In fact I know I am becasue it is me that my friends come to with their problems. I have spent many hours at church helping people that I barely know. Also as a waitress I tend to get customers who like to tell me about all of their problems. I really do enjoy helping others though, so I dont have a problem with listening to others. In fact hearing other peoples problems make me realize im not the only one with a crazy life. It makes me feel sane. I also love it because I am able to connect with complete strangers.
@dephie77 (106)
• Australia
17 Jul 09
yes, I can be a good listener. Many of my friends told me and shared their stories, I always listen to them and give my opinions when needed to calm them.
@biman_s (1060)
• India
16 Jul 09
Well frankly I think all men are not good listeners. But luckily I do pay a lot of attention when someone says me something to me, whether its a secret or problems. I think its mainly because I love to help people a lot and by listening to their problems we are able to help them out. I think we should pay attention when someone says anything to us, as it may be very important for you and that person.