Thers this guy I have been interested in.
@R0CKABILLYBABE (136)
United States
July 16, 2009 3:02pm CST
HELLO everyone. So there this guy that I have known for almost a year now. I have always had this big crush on him and couldnt tell him . Until recently well lets just say I had some liquid courage if u know what I mean and I just came out and told him and he said he just saw me as a sister and that he wasnt lookin to be in a relationship and even if he was he couldnt date me. I was like ouch it hurt me badly when he told me this. I dont want this to change he and I relationship but I think it has effected it very much. I can honestly say I had that feeling of how he felt about me so it really wasnt that much of a shock I was hoping he felt differently. I sometimes think I should of just kept it to myself me and rejection dont go well. I cant help but to still think of this person and I still like him. The other thing is he doesnt even live in my state. Am I just being stupid? Should I move on I dunno blah this sux :(
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@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
16 Jul 09
i had this friend of mine who have the same situation with you, and she also told her his friend about it. the difference between you and her is that they both live in the same town. same thing, guy just wants to be friends with her only and considers her as a sister.
well to tell you frankly, there's not much you can do about it if the guy dont like to have a relationship with you, just move on. we all know there's that right that right guy for you, he'll come even if you are not looking for him.
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@R0CKABILLYBABE (136)
• United States
20 Jul 09
Thank you so very much for responding I like to hear from ppl and see what adive they have to offer.
@mnk202 (338)
• United States
16 Jul 09
I am very sorry to hear that happened to you. I have been through that and I can agree the rejection did hurt even though I expected it. The one thing I can say is I didnt lose interest right away but as time went on and I slowly moved on I had someone come to me that I realized was even better. I still have somewhat of a friendship with the other person but it is not as close but I am ok with that he made his life and I made mine and I have to say it hurt then but it was funny when I wasnt looking I got something I very much least expected and its the greatest and I appreciate him more and more everyday and I have learned what I was once very much into and interested in was not what I could have stayed with anyway. Good Luck to you and if you ever need to talk you let me know.
@R0CKABILLYBABE (136)
• United States
20 Jul 09
Thank you so very much for your advice. I greatly appreciated what you had to say.
