love as destiny

i also agree... :) for me, if you really want someone so much you must show much effort in order for them to be assured that you love them.. in terms of the lovers, it's best if both of you are taking risks in order to strengthen more the relationship/bond/foundation.

Yeah, you have the point. To love is not a destiny but it's a matter of choice. Though God has control of everything but He give us the right to choose.

Life is about learning and growing as people. We do make the choices in our lives but we do not set the parameters of our life. Parameters are set by God to aid in the lessons we are to learn in life. If part of your lessons is through the interaction of a particular person, that person WILL be in your life!! We can choose who we love, but we can't always control who we fall in love with.