Being single or being married

I feel you should really choose that answer yourself, but i would love to be married over being single. I would like to wake up in my lovers arms knowing that we would last forever more instead of waking up myself and being alone throughout the day. I would like someone with me to make me happy and laugh when i am about to cry. Have someone to do things with knowing they would be by my side no matter what it is. Choose wisely. It is your life.

Honestly I would prefer to married.. But I am not right now... lack of medical insurance if I was to get married right now.. But that is what I am use too... Got married when I was 17 and got divorced when I last September, wow its almost been a year.. True people have told me to not worry about it and not to push it, so I do not make the same mistakes that I did the first time around.. Well their is logic and there is the emotions of the heart.. Some base their decisions on one or the other; but when they are both the same.. The leap of faith is worth it.. Are you making the right decision to go to the next step my friend? Is this person the one that completes your life? The one that you want to wake up next to for the rest of time? Are you willing to accept her down falls, the way she is... and not just hope to change certain things about her over time?.. Believe me that does not happen, a person will only change if they are willing to do it for them self... Personal experience has taught me that; not something easy to accept but that is the truth.. Another question?? Is she willing to accept you for who you are, without trying to change who you are? Granted marriage does change a person... With somethings it is like over night; like they say in the movies.. But other things may change over time with life.. A marriage takes work to keep it flowing; do not want to say it is a job.. that's not the right words.. but if you do not work on it each and every day, the two of you can start going in different directions; until one day you look at your partner and see a totally different person.. Open communication, honesty, and compassion is needed in every relationship, especially marriage..

As for now i am would choose to be single because i am still not in to a job. But after i get a job i would like to be get married as soon as i can.

It's still a personal choice. Maybe you're asking because you don't have a "special someone" right now. Forgive me, but I assume it is your personal dilemma. Anyway, if you won't be able to find somebody to share the rest of your life, then you might as well remain single. That simple. I mean, how could say I will get married if you don't have a partner, right? On the other hand, why remain single if you have a loving partner whom you could spend your lifetime with? I'm sorry but that is how I view it.

Since i think the purposes of life include to be a mate for the opposite gender and become families, so i choose to be married and generates my self... However, being single or being married are still a personal decisions...

In my opinion I would rather be single than ever be married. My mother cheated on her husband which is my step dad but I consider him my dad because he has always been there for us children. She is now in the dating field and she is dating a man who is married himself! And now my step dad is also dating a married woman. Also at my job there are four people that I know of who are not being faithful to their marriage.So no one is faithful any more and I will never get married. This brings problems into my current relationship because he wants to get married and I don't because I am too afraid of him cheating on me so now he sees it as I don't trust him. Marriage is just problems all around if you ask me.

I would prefer being single, but would not stop dating of course. I do believe marraige brings out a lot in 2 people, but also think it does takes a lot out of 2 people. I mean, there are lot of sacrifices, adjustments and life altering changes that take place, sometimes for good and sometimes for not so good. As far as marraige is concerned, I believe I do not need one because I am open, I am friendly and I can stay alone all my life with all my hobbies and interests, i will find it difficult to give time to marraige.

I prefer marraige. I never enjoyed dating and having that feeling of falling for someone but wondering how the other person REALLY felt. Only in marraige do people truly communicate and trust one another. I have been in long relationships that I thought would end in marraige and I have been in a relationship that is short lived. The longer the relationship the more it hurt when it ended. I have some happily married friends which has been a great example of how it can be, and I have some friends that should have never gotten married in the first place. With all I have seen and experienced I am still looking forward to walking down the isle making that committment to one blessed man.

I think that I will get married, but not too soon. Now I am only 21 years old, so I think I will not get married only I am 30 or older. I will work for several years, then live a regular life, have my own house, then I will think about the marry thing. Sooner or later, I will get married.

hi helscream, personally i would not like to stay alone, remaining single one can have lots of money and similar but what if you are not happy with your life, what is money when there is no happiness in life, i want to get married and lead a happy life as a nice family, and yeah i am lazy, i need someone to remind me of things( which my wife will help with)...lol...

Single any time dude at this juncture of my life. Marriage comes with a whole baggage of responsibility that one is generally shy of assuming. Also post marriage your burdened with so much additional responsibilities that you are bound to feel stifled. Your life becomes predictable and mundane and you tend to get content about life . The fire in your belly fizzes out in no time . So for all the above mentioned reasons I will prefer to stay single as long as I can

it depends on your priorities in life. if you enjoy being with friends often, well, partnered life is gonna be hard for you. im gonna show you tabbed reasons why you should pick that category so that you will be the one deciding for yourself. and just so u know, im currently single.haha SINGLE-life benefits: no curfew (unless your parents set you one) no restrictions on your manner of clothing (unless youre conservative) can go wherever you want without asking for someone's permission you can date two dates on the same day you can flirt (these are for those who are naturally born flirts, i consider myself one) you can have more time for personal solitude you can gain more time with your family more time for yourself more time for personal development MARRIED life benefits: you get to enjoy the comfort brought about by your partner as well as kids if you are gonna have a bunch you have a bestfriend and a lover in the form of your husband/wife. you have discipline, you are disciplined and you are disciplining you partner as well you have a partner to grow with you, physically, morally, psychologically and socially someone is there to hold you whenever your friends are out of reach you get to be more responsible you get to be selfless (it depends if you abuse that one) you get a discount from the government taxes coz ur married.haha you are secure because you know you are being loved by someone in a more special way ------------now these are just some of the most common benefits. as for me, currently im enjoying my life coz im independent. but of course, id like to be on that state someday where i am being comforted, loved and secured by someone. for now, married life is not my priority, but soon it will be.

I like to spend time with others, so I think that I can not stay single for the rest of kmy life. I want to be cared and care others.

I think that marrage is all about religion or else why couldn't homosexuals So, I will never get married to my bf. We have been together for a year and we agreed to be together for ever. I don't have a god. And if you are single. Have fun live life. No need to find someone that person will come to you. If you have a higher god though, keep up on what you want and your choices. They are what makes you. So never ever change for someone else. If someone tries to judge you then you should know they aren't the one.

Hi....HelScream In my personal point of view, I like the married life than be a single. I have both the experience as a single and a married man. From my experience, I would say that a married man will be more responsible than a single.He will be more caress and will be more cared by the spouse. A man/woman's life will be completed only when they marry and having kids . Otherwise their life will be incomplete.

I think married you get more benfits but I been married before so regardless the struggle I perfer remaining struggle.

as single you can get as much as freedom you want.if you got married you will get safety and companionship. I think when we are in different ages we have different demand for life. now i got older i feel getting married is a good choice or life style. My life is more stable and healthy. I also feel more confident in my life. I feel easier to deal with many things in my life.

Both being single and married have pros and cons...Single life is full of freedom,not tight to everyone at all.Free to go anywhere that you like. But once you have tight up with married life...it is totally different.It will have more responsibility and do not have much freedom anymmore in your life.The best part of being married is that you will have someone to share your happiness and unhappiness moments all the time.

The decision must be taken by you.But my friend you have opened this discussion and in my opinion i will go with being single with respect to my age.There are a lot of things we can enjoy being a single.If we get married we need to take care of our family, added responsibility and a lot of stuffs are there.But it holds good until we reach a certain age.Till then we can enjoy the maximum we have.But if we cross an age we need to get married.So all it depends on the age and our mind. Thanks for the discussion!!!

well its quite personal.it depends from person to person but i would prefer being single rather than committing anyone in my life...