Friendship and Love

India
November 13, 2006 12:06am CST
Some peoples will fall in love with one of their friend. Loving a friend is right or wrong? If we starts love a friend to make to be a life partner, then how can we belive that all friends will be friends forever. But the one thing good in this is we will have utmost understanding. But whom to believe?
4 responses
@dodododo3 (375)
• India
13 Nov 06
friendship is like a boundless relationship...u can share ur feeling,sorrow,love,everything without having any difficulties. But if u love ur friend and make him/her as ur life-partner, u find that all sharing r not possible then... u will lost ur loving friend.thats all.
• India
13 Nov 06
R u sure that a friend after marriage will loose loving friendship. I dont think so. I married a friend who then became my lover. But still we are like friends only sharing all the things in our life. What will u tell now? Even We are more friendly as well as lovable than before.
• India
13 Nov 06
yes making a friend as ur life partner is the right thing.
• India
13 Nov 06
How can u tell that it is right? then whom to believe as a friend?
• India
13 Nov 06
their is nothing wrong in loving a friend, friends can become lovers, u knw tat friends share everything only till their marriage after marriage the line or gap between the friends will become narrow as the couple have a new private life.. so when u get married u give more importance to ur privatelife than the other life, no matter watever happens friends will always be friends else they are not friends and were never friends
• India
13 Nov 06
ok. but then whom to believe to be as a friend. I may think one person as my good friend but that friend will fall in love with me, then what will i think, he misused my friendship na? if the same happens like this just think if a friend is in love with me and i was in love with another of mine friend then wt will happen? whome to believe then?
• United States
3 Jan 07
u cannot say that loving ur frd is wrong.... a good frd is a person who knows everything abt u...even more than ur parents know abt u.. and also frds have good understanding among each other. u will start loving and understanding ur better half after marriage only.... but if he is ur frd ur married life will be....... I think U got it... and don't think that all will propose u....and believe all ur frds