Do you think I'm spoiled?

Although spoiled is a good word for it, so is lazy Don't ever let her go!

So really what do you do? Yes you are spoiled and I think you should be helping out. There is no reason for you not to do anything. Why don't you cook a meal once in awhile. Help celan around the house. I'm sure you know how to wash your own cloths and you should be doing them on your own. They are your cloths. Wash your own dang car and help out with the gardening. Help out with the dishes and help wash the dog. I would like to know if she does everything what really do you do sit on your butt and watch T.V.?

Spoiled in a way, yes.. But it's evident on how much she loves you. You are one lucky man.. But I'm more curious to know what you have to do; the last part which you would say. I'd wait on......

well,yes you must consider yourself mighty lucky. she seems to be doing the lion's share of the work. i think it would be fair for you to try and contribute some more in the daily chores of the house. and yes, take good care of her as she deserves it thoroughy.

ya you are spoled. you just need to lay down on bed with someone

Well you're very lucky! Its hard to say if spoiled is the right word, What do you do? If she is a stay home mum or does the house work while you go out and work then most of these jobs would just get does while you're working but i do beleive there are somethings around the house that the man should do and enjoy doing so that us women don't have to organinse everything, some of the time its not a matter of being spoiled its just a matter of having it done a certain way so we do it ourselves so that it doesn't have to be re-done. Its nice though for time to time to be shown that you're work it appreciated and to be spoiled too!!

She does the job. She works as a home manager and her job is very difficult. You are very spoiled my friend. While you can work for few hours a day, come back home and rest, it takes all day long to do hers job....non of it would be my favorite....

you know if i were you, i wouldn't let my parents do the all things around the house. instead' i'd love to help them. DO WHAT YOU CAN. Don't wait for them to ask you what you have to do around the house. i will garantee you, they will be proud of you 100% tell you that!

it kind of does sound like you may be spoiled but then again maybe she is doing all t hose things because you do many equally thoughtful and considerate things for her. I hope so because that is the way it should be. if that is the case then she is not spoiled but very much loved.

you almost tricked me. you didnt say you dont help but you didnt say what you do for her. i dont blame the first one who said you are spoiled. but am sure you deserve being spoiled if you spoil her as well. i wish you happiness all the time.

yes, you are spoiled. I don't care what you do. I am a stay at home mom, only because I am on bed rest, and my man works 6 days a week, sometimes up to 15 hours a day. And he works outside the whole time, regardless of weather, on heavy equipment. And while I do the majority of the housework, we are still a team. If I ask him to cook dinner on the weekend because I am tired of cooking, or just don't want to, he will. He also helps with the laundry, and keeping the house clean. And when my feet are swollen and my back hurts, he rubs them because he loves me. So, I hope, since your woman does all this for you, that you treat her well, because she obviously deserves it!

Yes indeed you are. The only thing lacking is you lying in bed and she serves the breakfast lunch and dinner for you. Make sure to pamper her since that is one rare breed. You are very lucky.

YOU ARE SO SPOILED MAN LOLXX.. maybe Try to help your mama from now on..:)

hmmm yeah you're spoiled hehe treat her well and spoil her back because she obviously deserves it.

mipen? Can I borrow her for a week? My guy says I could learn from her! lol You are not spoiled. To me, being spoiled is getting everything you want and not appreciating it and wanting more. You obviously appreciate her. Good for you!

Yes I think so - all those things you list myself and my husband do between us - he would not dare let me do them all by myself!! lol

I believe you are spoiled and I am waiting to hear the reason why. I am assuming it will be in your replies to us or in a new discussion, I can't wait to see what it is.

Hi mipen2006. If I just read your post and responded straightaway I would have said the same responses as others saying you are spoiled. BUT reading your follow up comments: massaging her when required, you do help her, and that your relationship is all about sharing and mutual love, oh, plus the holidays together....well, I think you are doing great. You are not spoiled but well loved by her. She deserves all those massages you give her, the help and the holidays with you. That's sweet.

yes you are spoiled... you are very loved by your partner that she dont want you to get tired. i hope you do something for her to make her feel that she is loved too, like take her out all the time, go on a date. and bring her flowers, gifts. that'll make her feel she's appreciated and loved and would do more things for you...

I really can't say for sure if you are spoiled or not because you only mentioned the things she does for you. You didn't say anything about yourself. Well, do you work hard to earn money? From what you said, it's possible that she does all these things because you are always working.