Can you?

hi zearah, first of all i will visit the profile of the responder the country and the gender,if i found if it is new country i will request for friendship ...hai how are you?

Some questions it does not matter, eg what is your favourite colour. Whereas other questions it is usually easy to tell due to the gender that they side with in their opinion. Men are more likely to side with men and women with women.

Well, that description was certainly interesting. I just assume on some of the ones that i respond to, but have not actually looked to see if they were male or female, since i am usually just responding or answering a discussion.

I just assume by looking at their profile and checking their usernames, sometimes this is useful and others not so much but that's what I do. I think it will be hard to find a guy with a name like Shelly but one never knows for sure right?

Hi zearah, It is hard to know someone gender here if he/she didn't put it in his/her profile. All we can do is make a wild guess base on his/her avatar, response or whatever. I guess you are a girl . Happy mylotting and have a nice day.

Some responses indicated their gender here. So i don't really have problems on genders.Ü Though i don't really know if one is les bian or g a y. Do you think they should include their gender when they respond? he he. Is gender that important to you?

Well, I guess that is one thing to consider when entering discussions on the world wide web. Especially a web site like myLot that has users from many different countries. Sometimes you can tell by a person's avatar what their gender is, especially if they have a closeup picture for an avatar. I wish you luck in the future. Have a great day myLotting!

firstly i see avatar if its clear enough to guess the person is he or she then its done and if its not than their wordings comes to consideration and if its also not convincing then their is only one thing left..........just see their profile and..........rest is up to u..........

It's interesting question but awesome, as i am not here to see whether the response to my discussion or a respond to a discussion is from a male or female. I just prefer to respond or comment when i am interested or when i know abt the topic in the discussion.

An avatar and a name can sometimes give you an impression what gender a person is but like you said sometimes there are surprises lurking around every corner and we can't know for certain. And sometimes by the way a person types/talks can reveal a gender or by what they like to talk about. Women tend to be more open about their personal lives and give more details away in their responses where men tend to focus on logic and have a glass wall up. Now that is just statistics so it doesn't mean its going to work every time but its just what has be noted by people who have studied things. For me I rarely even wonder whether or not a person is either female or male. To me I focus on more the discussions than on the actual person.

Hi, ya there are so many mylot members here, and it is sometimes very hard to recognise whether it is a he or she. In some cases, it maybe quite obvious to know the owner is a male or female by reading the topic posted, or the contents of it. By merely looking at the photo here is of course the fasest way to know, but not all mylot members put their real photo here, some just put a scenery picture or some is just pet photos,haha. However, it actually does not really matter whether the topic owner is a he or she. In my opinion, most of us are here just to post and discuss on various topics of our interest. I would not care much about others's gender, unless that person has really attracted my attention with his or her postings , or photo, then i would only proceed to know more.

I think it is really hard to know if the one who respond to your discussion is a she or he, sometimes I could hardly tell it. But if there is his or her pictures, I will identify it not very difficult.

I saw from the picture, if no pictures, I will guess from the answer.I think almost women will have experience about friends, shopping, health, love etc.In really i don't want to know the gender.

I will have to agree that it is hard to tell who is who, but should we really need to know that. We are here for the same reason to vent,share a subject,get answers,make money, and possible make a new friend along the way. A friend is a friend no matter if male or female and what their preference is. A lot of us don't want to be revealed as who we are. Respect that of someone and just try to be a friend when needed.

Hi! i haven't actually thought of it til now that you mentioned it. For me it doesn't really matter what gender they have. But i guess it might help on the type of interest and discussion you start on. One time i came up with a discussion about motherhood and most of my responses came from mothers like me. and one response came from a guy who readily mentioned that he's a male and he just wanted to participate in the discussion i have because he has very solid input.And you're also right when you said that the avatar might give you the clue but then again we're not really sure if it's them. maybe you can ask them to mention it in their responses ;-) and now that iv'e just said that-- i already said that im a mom hehe voila!