Long distance realationship
By babyfiona08
@babyfiona08 (652)
Philippines
July 17, 2009 7:51pm CST
Me and my man have been together for almost 2 years. We're used to being with each others company most of the time. Now,he had to work so he moved into another place. As for now, we don't have any problems concerning our status yet. But in the next months, I don't know if it would still be the same?
What should I/We do to keep the relationship going?
6 responses
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
i have been in a situation like you before, i've been separated with my man for quite sometime because of his work and the things that keeps our relationship going is constant communication and prayers...of course you have to trust him and be ready for whatever happens...and be ready to accept thing and forgive...we can really never say what will happen but if you really love each other, you must trust him and ask for God's guidance in your relationship...
that man i am talking about is already my husband now...see, we survive our long distance relationship and now we're living together happily...
have a nice day and good luck to both of you!
God bless babyfiona!
@tuckersheri (1327)
• United States
18 Jul 09
I would try to work things out you have been together for awhile. So keep your head up and try to strong. You could try calling him when you can vistiting when he's free and spending every minute you can with him. Don't end it just because he moved if you really love him and he loves you it will work out. Good luck on your relationship.
@quincy_13 (65)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
hi! i am not a big believer of long distance relationships. But if you really love each other then i guess there's no reason for you to be problematic as yet.
But you have to consider other factors like;
- how long are you going to be apart? is it temporary or permanent? if you think that it will take longer then maybe it won't hurt to ask who's gonna visit who, and how often will you see each other.
But don't worry, with the kind of technology we have. The world gets smaller everyday, you can chat daily, send instant sms anytime you want. Call him on your or his free time etc. Im sure you'd find a way that's most convenient for both of you ;-) Goodluck!
@dephie77 (106)
• Australia
18 Jul 09
the only way to keep it is trust and communication.
I've just broke up with my ex few months ago because we were separated for a year in different countries. And sure we couldn't meet even only once. Need lots of money.
But as long as you can keep it, you'll survive! :)
appreciate what you have now, or you'll regret it later....:)