what should i do
By adrico
@adrico (204)
China
July 18, 2009 7:08am CST
hi my dear friends from mylot
these days i really have some problems that are difficult for me to deal with. because of work i live with coworkers. after a few days i fond the problem ,i just think i hate their interests,yeah it is no denied that there are many things that i can learn from them just like experence and the skills ,i just graduate from college and enter the community for few times. most of the topics they talk is the girls and something that is not good(i sure) i like to talk about the social and lives .because of this i often have little topicals with them . i was trouble in this ?what should i do ..should i change myself just to talk about the things with them that i dont like or even hate it. what should i do ?
1 response
@chi2nasrin (1101)
• Malaysia
18 Jul 09
If you don't like to do it then don't. You don't have to do something that is not you just to be among them. You can still have friends who is not living or working with you and share your interest and still have fun.
No worry, a lot of people are like this and the best thing is you got nothing to lose. If they don't mix with you because you don't like to talk about girls, then it's their problem, not yours!
Be happy always and happy mylotting!
@adrico (204)
• China
20 Jul 09
thank you for your reply . sometimes i have the thoughts to give in my ideas ?you know i will work with them for a long time ,no languages with them so who should i talk with ?a little difficult for me to deal with isn't it ?but everyone has the principle,i should obey it?wish i could deal with them ?
and thank you my friend again lol
wish you have a good day!!!
@chi2nasrin (1101)
• Malaysia
20 Jul 09
I didn't mean not to talk with them at all. Just if you don't like the topic they are talking about then don't join in. You should tell them your idea and opinion that you don't have the interest to talk about that. If they really are worth being friends with, surely they will respect your choice, right?
