Is it love or attraction?
By hireshd
@hireshd (490)
India
July 18, 2009 8:48am CST
I love a girl and recently I met a new girl who is too good looking and sometimes I skip my meet with my girlfriend to meet the new girl but somehow I did not liked talking with her about personal things previously but since last few days I have opened a lot in front of her so am i in love with this new girl or just attraction?
4 responses
@cbeee3 (2061)
• India
18 Jul 09
Hard to say. Only you know the answer to that question. Are your feelings for her based on her looks alone or would you be interested in her if she didn't look all that great and still spoke to you about the same things and had the same personality?
You need to dig deep inside yourself and answer those questions and you will know the answer.
In any case, if you do decide to go with the other girl, I humbly request you to please tell your GF that your relation with her is not working out and you need to break up. Too many people cheat and its the most painful thing anyone can face.
God bless!
@hireshd (490)
• India
18 Jul 09
Thanks for your response, my feelings for her are just based on her looks but somehow I dont care about her looks too these days! But yes there are still certain topics that I refrain from talking with her even now. I dont have trust on her that she would be available wen i need her, I still call up my girlfriend wen I want to talk and spend time when I feel lonely depressed because I know for sure that my GF can only boost me up and not the new girl.
@vined_pards (96)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
It is easy for us to get attracted to some pretty faces. It is normal coz we saw first the physical feature before we learn what's inside of a person. Openning some personal matters to somebody you just met is still just like a part of acquaintance between you and her. It is still an attraction for me.
@kangel48446 (507)
• United States
19 Jul 09
i think its just attraction because you really only think she's pretty but you have opened up with her it still could only be because you want that to be more because your so attracted to her. now this other girl is the one i think you really want to be with.if you fell these things for her she's the one you should be with and drop this other girl. well if you love being around this girl, love spending time with her, can tell her about anything, and you can't really see your self with out her. so ask your self that and then make you decision and be with the right one.(good luck).
@friendship4lyfe (520)
• Saint Lucia
18 Jul 09
I dont think its even an attraction but pure and simple lust.Just you beginning the discussion with her looks says it all.You have to realize that at some point in life these things happen and we have to tell the difference between lust,attraction and love.Attraction is what leads to love and if you care about her you wouldnt still be with you girlfriend and just skip meeting with her.you would simply say bye-bye to her to be with miss soo good looking.
