do i really have to befriend the friend of my love ones?
By jelamar
@jelamar (44)
Philippines
July 18, 2009 5:15pm CST
do i really have to befriend the friend of my husband in order for us to have a happy relationship???
to be honest i don't want to see my husband hanging around with his friends because i really don't like them... i don't like the way on how they treat girls, its like its just a GAME for them!!! As a girl i don't want to happen to me, you can never blame me right? And also, they are the happy go lucky type of guys which i really hated. How would you react with this kind of situation? I'll wait for your response and hope your answers can help solve my issue... Thanks!!! and happy mylotting!!
4 responses
@jelamar (44)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
you know what, i have tried many times, i tried to explain WHY, but it seems that for him i'm very UNREASONABLE!!! i tried different ways in explaining to him these and that but nothing happens, and the arguing keeps on repeating over and over again...
how is that??? thanks for the response and hope to hear more from you... HAPPY MYLOTTING!!!
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
20 Jul 09
I am very sorry to hear that. Us guys can be very pigheaded when it comes to our friends, even when they are complete jerks. I have no idea why that is. If I had to choose between my keeping my friends happy and my wife, I'd be telling them idiots to go hang out with someone else
@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
I don't think you are not required to befriend them especially that you know they are not a good influence to you both. I guess you need to talk to your husband and tell him what you feel. But of course you have to tell him in a good way not to the extend that you will demand him to stay away from them.
@zeusdhi (63)
• Philippines
26 Jul 09
For me it is not really necessary for you to be friend your husband friends. Specially if they are like that. As your husband friend at least they themselves should also think of how are you going to feel about what they are doing to girls. And i think you should also tell your husband about how you feel. At least he knows why you are not be friending his friend :D
@zizzazzula (180)
• Italy
18 Jul 09
I don't think so!
There's my boyfriend friend i can't stand at all _ he is selifsh, he thinks he's cool (nobody told him) and so on _ my boyfriend really likes him but I hate him!!! I told the situation to my boyfriend and he explained his friend was not trying to change his mind or so... he just finds him friendly and nothing would change in my boyfriend's point of view... I hope it is so T_T
@jelamar (44)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
i understand your situation and how you are feeling with your boyfriend, actually i had tried explaining to my husband the reasons why i don't like his friends but nothing happens, and also i told him that for the sake of the relationship that we have just do the thing that i am requesting but nothing happens... any ways we can find more ways on how to solve this "issue",. hope to hear from you more and happy MYLOTTING!!!!
