trust issues..

United States
July 18, 2009 6:19pm CST
I love my current boyfriend of almost 10 months more than ive ever loved anyone... but i just dont know why i can help but be worried that hes gonna cheat on me.. or I get jealous ... here lemme try to map it out for u.. my boyfriend sean, i met him on myspace, he moved from washington state to virginia into my house to be with ME.. good right? :-D romantic and all... but.. im still jealous of one girl he was friends with in washington... i know they are only friends and he moved out here to be with me, leaving everything behind but how it is im so jealous... like its as if i feel like hes just setting up base here till he can live somewhere else and fly her out here... i told him that was how i felt and he said it was rediculous and that he loves me and only me.. i believe him its just.. i trust him .. its everyone else i dont trust. ive been cheated on by almost every guy ive been with... i think thats where the trust issues are coming from.. its just.. i dunno how to get over stuff... like today.. he was supposed to work 11-7... but someone got fired so now hes gonna work 10am-12pm... and i dunno.. sure we could use the money but i even asked him if he was sure hes gonna work all day and not work for a while then go hang out with some chick or w/e... im scared imma push him away or something cuz of this complex other guys have given me.. please help and be gentle
2 responses
tatiana07
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
in a relationship, trust is really really important.look at his side, he moved and leaved everything just to be with you. don't be too possessive and jealous always without any basis because guys want them to be trusted.don't think negative things about leaving you and cheating on you, just think on ways on how will you maintain and improve the relationship and love that both of you have. happy mylotting!
kangel48446
@kangel48446 (507)
• United States
19 Jul 09
okay i know how you feel and its not that hes going to cheat its you haven't been with him long enough to fully trust him i know because i was the same way and i was scared this guy was going to cheat then it was not him it was the other girls but here's the thing if you truly trust him then you wont worry about the other girls cause you know that there is only one person he wants and that's you. and the only way to truly trust him is to let him go where he wants, hangout with who ever he wants, and let him talk and be friends with this girl that's how you will know. and then you will fully trust him. (good luck).