What is the first thing you notice about people on meeting them?
By Traceann
@Traceann (29)
Australia
11 responses
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
30 Sep 09
Hi Traceann, I notice the eyes and the facial expressions first. I like it when the person looks at you in the eye and is frank in his/her appraisal. It shows that there is nothing to hide . Later I look at other things like the entire personality, the way the person is dressed and the manner in which he/she deals with others and situations in general...
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@harishkowshik (234)
• India
19 Jul 09
hi buddy! I generally judge people by their intelligence level or their friendly attitude. But as far as looks are concerned I would go with clothing and hygiene. these two things speak about a person exactly and their nature. Cheers
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
I don't meet too many people. I guess I know everyone I need to know already and living in a little shack constantly surfing the internet does not help in meeting so many people at all.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Oct 09
hi traceann the first thing I notice about people when I'
meet them is their smile and whether or not their eyes are
smiling also. Then I will notice how they look and how they'
are dressed but their smile comes first and most importantly
to me.I don't judge people by their clothes or styles but by
the way they do or don't smile at me.
@LovingLife139 (1504)
• United States
19 Jul 09
Their presence is the first thing I notice. Are they energetic? Genuinely happy to meet me? Quiet and withdrawn? Talkative?
I am instantly attracted like a magnet (friendly-wise, not romantically) to people who are happy, energetic, and fun. I usually can tell this before they speak just because these are the types of people who can walk into rooms and turn heads without saying a word. I am very energetic and optimistic and I flourish in the presence of others like me in this sense.
The first thing I noticed about my husband (disregarding instant connection, magnetism, and love at first sight before I spoke to him) was that he was quiet and reluctant to share too many personal feelings when I met him. It was intriguing to me...I was attracted to him also because I felt he needed help somehow and I would be the one to help him. On our first date he opened up, but it was his quiet nature that made me cling to our relationship. Most people would be able to walk by him without a second glance because he has a calming energy surrounding him and is very quiet, but it intrigued me at first.
The first physical thing I notice about people is their smile. A true, contagious, happy smile is an instant connection for me.
@cheque123 (41)
• United States
19 Jul 09
the thing i notice first in people is their looks. im not sure why my eyes see looks first but they do.
@baileycows (3665)
• United States
19 Jul 09
I always notice someones teeth first. I have a teeth fettish. I love a great smile too, but I cant help it I don't really look at anything else until I see your teeth. I know that is horrible, but I cant help it.
@TrvlArrngr (4045)
• United States
19 Jul 09
The first thing I notice is their eyes. They are the mirrors to our souls
@jules67 (2788)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
Whenever I am introduced to a person, the first thing that I would notice is the person's smile. It all makes a difference when you see a person smiling, it looks brighter and loveliver when the person is smiling. You feel that you are welcome when you look at the person. A person's smile goes beyond his clothing and his good looks.
@jenlooi (60)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 09
The first thing that will catch my attention will be his personality and followed by his hygiene. I prefer someone with is friendly, humourous, out-going and sensitive towards the people around him. It doesn't matter if he doesn't have the looks or his attire is very casual. It is important that he looks after his own hygiene and he looks tidy and smart. No nose digging in front of public is the most important thing!!!