why oh why?
@chantalgiardina (2523)
United States
July 18, 2009 11:37pm CST
Why is it when you first get with someone it seem sthey take 2 seconds to bust, but after being whith them for a while, they take way too long?
Well for me, when i met my hubby years ago.. he busted in minutes ..like less than 5 min., but now we can be 30 min into it and all i can think is "please bust already"
Sometimes it bothers me cause it makes me feel as if something is wrong with me..im not doing somethign right.
but then other times, I figure he has just gotten used to me and maybe it isnt as thrilling anymore
Really need opinions on this! Do you experience the same?
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@sowegamama (7)
• United States
22 Jul 09
i agree with the other responses. its a routine at this point. he knows he's going to get it and he knows how its going to be so there is not a lot of excitement left for him. switch things up. do something really freaky. shock him a little bit.
also, there should be a mental connection there as well. if you two are just screwing and not actually connecting on an emotional level, then he may not be getting what he needs.
