Losing someone or something
By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
Philippines
8 responses
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
20 Jul 09
Yes my friend I agree with you. I experience that with my partner herself. Though my partner is a nagger type of a woman but I love her so much. Though we had so many quarrels and big troubles happened but I really missed her when she went at their hometown and I left behind alone.
I supposed I would be glad then because I would be free, but it was opposite. I don't feel like I was happy. I don't want to go out because I was alone. I was just at home in front of my PC. I realized then that I really want her besides me...
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
20 Jul 09
Ohhh...At least you have proven how much you need her..And remember my friend,a woman's way to attract attention is to NAG...hehehe
thanks for your responce
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
25 Jul 09
Very true my friend.It's the fact that we can't never hold them back that really hurts.Especially if someone we love and lost is now in the hands of other person.
Thanks for your responce my friend
@pillusch (1147)
• Mexico
23 Jul 09
I don´t think it´s only about ´losing´ somebody or something. It is as well about ´not feeling´ an unpleasant emotion. Let me explain: We are in a situation which causes us emotional pain, but as soon as we leave that situation we tend to forget that, wanting to go back to that situation because we only remember the pleasant aspects of it. I´m talking, of course, about relationships. Sometimes we don´t realize how well we actually feel because we forget that the pain has gone.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
25 Jul 09
As time goes by,it is a natural thing to forget the pain,that is the time when we say" we had moved on".And i guess it should be that way,why keep pain inside?...losing someone or something is one way of teaching us to value someone or something once belong to us.There are just instances that we never realize it's worth til the time we lost it.
Thanks for your responce my friend
@larish (2239)
• Philippines
20 Jul 09
This is so true on me. I have learned to value my former job now that I have my new employer. I just realize now that I have better opportunity before than the ones I have now. As what you said, you can only see the value of something if it is no longer yours. Nice topic on this. Happy myloting.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Jul 09
Good for you my friend,you found a better opportunity.You should be very thankful then.
Thanks for your responce
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Jul 09
Crying is one way of expressing our pain from our loss.I think you a loving person my friend.I can't imagine how you will cry hard enough
Cheers!!!
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
22 Jul 09
Loosing friends and people close or once close to you is not something not new to me. in my case, they're the ones who choose to leave and go away. sometimes i try to re attachment with them to bring back old memories but it's all gone now and they're not the same person that i used to know.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Jul 09
So sad to know about this my friend.Sometimes we have to let go thu it hurts,and to think you made effort to re-attach with them.
Thanks for your responce
Cheers!!!
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
Yes I experienced that, wish I could turn back the time. I did not lost her but she loses me hehehe
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
Hello my amiga
I often says that too,they lost me and not me losing them (hehehe).
But after all,moments of our past,happy moments,laughters we shared will always be there to be remembered.
It's really hard to lose someone.
@fkys509 (99)
• China
19 Jul 09
Sure.
I have been there.
I lost my first love in my life last year. And for about six months after that,I could not adjust my state well which made me upset and disappointed all day long.
But I have to say I loved her so much both when we were together and lots of days after I lost her.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
ohhh,sorry to hear this.It is always a big loss when we lost someone we love.
Thanks for your reply my friend and wish u had found a new love to cherish