Do you think that the very intelligent people can not love any one truly?

you know. its phisical to calculate waiting a "perfect" result. they will fastly realise that perfection and problems avoidin in relalation is impossible. so they give up. dont really belive only very intelligent people can not love anyone

I think intelligent people can also love one truly, as they are broadminded enough to understand their loved ones better. The only problem is that they might be perfectionist that they expect their partners to be one like them.

I fully disagree. I see no reason at all why a person can not be intelligent and have a heart at the same time. No matter our intellectual level we are still human and we have a need for relationships and love. Of course this is speaking in a broad sense. There are people who are so into themselves that they have no time for relationships...just to much to do and learn. But if you could take a pole of people with a high IQ and the questions revolved around relationships and their feelings and emotions you would be surprised at the results overall. Of course being a real dummy I would say that.

No, that will never be the rule. Actually nobody is perfect. And even the most intelligent or a dumb person will certainly love a person and their level of knowledge or education has nothing to do with that. Love doesn't need to be computed. It was more an abstract to most because they aren't certain and some define love as the most important thing that happened in their life. I did not choose my husband because he is intelligent or so, i loved him because of who he was and what he was. I don't need to think more about it since it is a feeling that needs to be nourished everyday. A relationship is needed to grow like a plant. So you will do certain things to improve it, but that does not mean that you focus your gray matter to only attain it. Some people say that they have loved a wrong person because they did not use their head but more they used their hearts to rule. Mostly people does the same, when we are more emotional, we don't think anymore, we don't use our brain, but our heart.

everyone has the capacity to love.even intelligent people have the capacity to love someone with all their heart.we may think that these intelligent people are very self-centered and selfish.they are really just using the logical sides of their thinking.they are factual.but it doesn't mean that they don't have emotions.

Love is universal, however it is viewed in many different ways. A very intelligent person (and I use the word intelligent loosely) is very capable of love, although there is a direct correlation between intelligence and being self centered and narcissistic. And when a person is that full of themselves then there is no room for the love of another or to love another.

I totally agree with you, people who are bent on knowledge and intelligence, do tend to calculate a lot more in a relationship, as compared others.

If the person has love in heart, no matter he/she is intelligent, I do not think he/she will calculate in the love. It's uncountable love for everyone. I think that love will depend on 1 person's personality.

Doing Some thing or thinking some thing in a different way makes people intelligent.At that sense may be you are right and you can say the very intelligent people can not love truly, but above that all are human beings know and we all will have same feelings and emotions so i don't agree with this.Good discussion.

I think that no matter how intelligent one person is he has still feelings that doesn't need to be feed by his mind to react. It is the nature of man to have emotions. I think that love can be felt even by the most intelligent man ever live. It doesn't need further thinking for him to feel love. It is instinct.

I think it's true. They are somehow cruel in nature. They only love money or knowledge and so there is no place for love.

I agree with you.Doing calculations in relationship make give crazy answers and it takes the human mind to beyond the limit of creativeness and exaggerations, so it becomes the root cause of breaking in relationship.Especially in love it becomes a sensitive issue.

Love is a good understanding and matured relationship between two people.It will not be correct to say that intelligent people can not love truly.Infact intelligent people can understand and feel the true meaning of love.They can think in a matured way.Love is a feeling that is close and connected to someone who we care about and think about them constantly.I think calculations cannot come in this type of feelings and relationships.

I disagree, using the term very intelligent is not, but an intelligent or wise person can trully and wisely love a person. We are all human beings capable to love and be love.

If two persons are in love, I think, there is nothing that will hinder them, not even their difference in intelligence. If lovers are expecting greater in return or if they are used of counting the amount they give to their partner, their love means conditional. I remember way back when I was in my college years, I had a companion who is very intelligent. In fact, he graduated in college with the highest honor. He used to expect much from her girlfriend. He also wants her girl to be one of the honor rolls. His girl became suffocated, cold and bitter to him. Later, their relationship did not last but they found their own partners. The girl found a less intelligent person but very thoughtful and good-looking. The guy found a girl who is a foreigner and is as intellectual as him.

Hahahaha...really? But I beg to disagree my friend. All of us human beings are created with feelings and capacity to love. There is no really scientific basis that if one has a high IQ is not capable of loving someone truly. The only thing that make these people from the average loving people is that they tend to love someone more intricately rather than loving someone simply. But they do love truly. Some famous people who have high IQ were happily married like Bill Gates, Nelson Mandela, Madonna was married before (although she's now divorced), William Shakespeare, and would you believe even Confucious has a wife. If its just the capacity to love, everyone is capable intelligent or not. There is no exact known rule about loving someone.

Do you think that very intelligent people cannot love anyone truly? No Vijayanths, I do not think this is true. It's like the old saying goes. Everbody needs somebody to love.... Hee hee. Calculations must be made, even from the very beginning of the relationship. That is the only way to tell if the person is really feeling something for you and just how much they care. Happy mylot!

Love is a basic emotion which every living creature undergoes in this world. It has no category like very intelligent or normal intelligence etc, so far as I know. True love does not differentiate or classify anything.

yes i also disagree about what you've said,being more intelligent doesn't mean you can less love,it's two different thing.God sets us to love and be loved,and i mean everybody here,if your to much intelligent it's for chosen one only,it's a gift from above that we have to cherish also. if this things really do happen then it's ones problem on handling his or her self.

Good topic vijayanths, but I strongly disagree mostly in part due to the fact that intelligence is a very subjective aspect of one's being which up to today there is no convincing way to measure. I believe that the very intelligent people are just as capable of loving as the "not-so-intelligent" people, the underlying factor which dictates one's capacity to love in my opinion, is kindness :) Happy myLotting!