What to do with your zero response discussion??

feeling blah for no responses - how it makes me feel when no one response to a discussion
United States
July 19, 2009 5:15pm CST
I was just going threw my unresolved discussions and I have quite a few zero response ones. It breaks my heart to see them because I can't delete them or anything else. Does anyone have any tips on how to do something with them? How many do you have?
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9 responses
• Australia
19 Jul 09
Yes i do have advice try to email your friends and tell them wat your discussion is and were to find it and yes i do have some with no responses so just try and get the word out to everyone if posible
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@payout (3794)
• United States
19 Jul 09
Well Unless your friends have a Mylot then I think thats sort of useless. They will need a mylot user to answer or respond to the discussion. =]
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• United States
19 Jul 09
Yes I ahve thought of that,it also helps make them possibly sign up as well.
@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
21 Jul 09
A couple of my friends helped me out when I asked them...I didn't know if it was cool to ask..but took a chance and they helped me with it.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
19 Jul 09
Just send the Links Sweet and I am sure that you will get responses on them, I have known a few People this has happened to and they just put the Links in a Discussion asking their Friends if the could respond I hope it works for you
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
19 Jul 09
Sweetie you are welcome I am glad he requested me, get those Links out, I am of to bed now as it is late here but once you have sent them I will certainly respond to them Big Hugs
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• United States
19 Jul 09
Aw thanks Gabs you are great. And hey thanks for adding Ron over at yuwie!
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@carpenter5 (6782)
• United States
20 Jul 09
I will go and take a look and see if there are any that I can comment on. I try to do that if I see one of my friends with discussions that have no responses. I think I have two or three with no responses as well. I hope someone will do that for me! LOL
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• United States
20 Jul 09
I will be going threw all that responded to this the next few days to check threw their discussions. All the tips and many ahving the same problem helps me feel better lol.So no worry I got your back :)
• United States
20 Jul 09
I went threw all your pages and found one zero response discussion,maybe you can find me the links to the others and post it here. However I did notice you and rosekiss a reponder from above ^^^ both have unresolved discussion under the soap one life to live. Maybe you two can help each other out? lol
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Jul 09
PM me any time you like with the link and I'll go respond...
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Jul 09
yes I know they were responded to, but if she has another one, I am offering...
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Jul 09
of course, any time!
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• United States
24 Jul 09
Thanks Dawn I have been laid up a few days and never got time but I will keep you and Deb in mind from here on out! You rock my friend!
@payout (3794)
• United States
19 Jul 09
I have like 3-4 of them and It makes me sad too sometimes haha.. lol.. but yeah there is nothing I can do you can't delete them. I usually go look at my unresolved discussions so I give someone the Best responses.. =] but yeah I try lol but there is nothing I can do you can do or anyone.. =] I just let them be oh well ..
• United States
19 Jul 09
I know it sucks,when you really try and get nothing. But I will poke around and see if I can help.
@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
19 Jul 09
Of all my discussions I started, there is only one that 0 responses, and nothing I can do about it. It is only a few days old so it might get some anyways. I am happy for all the responses that I did get to my discussions. even if it was only a few. It is so hard to come up with a discussion that is interesting enough to get responses. That is one reason, I mostly post responses, as it is just to hard to come up with a decent discusson. It does take more thinking to start a discussion than it does to respond to one. I would just rather respond as I am making all my money from here just doing that. So, I will stick with what works. Good luck to you and happy mylotting.
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• United States
19 Jul 09
I posted my links to the ones I have with no responses up above. I usally try to go threw once every few days to check out all the zero response discussions here on mylot to try to help everyone out. It is hard,and it gets alot harder the more people come to mylot. I try to be orinigal but that is tough too! LOL
• United States
20 Jul 09
Hi hun I did go threw and look at your discussions and found the one you are talking about, you and carpenter5 both have unresolved disucssions in one life to live but I don't watch it so I can not help you. Howveer maybe you two can help each other out :)
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
24 Jul 09
The trouble is that you cannot put their url in the myLot and say "could you please answer my zero response discussions" because it is against myLot guidelines. Besides just leaving them until you get one response, (and then you have to wait until you get the appropriate answer so you can give a best response), you can see what interest that zero discussion (the unresolved is the one that you never gave a best response to yet) is in and invite friends who are more likely to answer it. But then you have to risk getting friends who feel strongly against something you are strongly for so when you start a discussion such as "Cat people are selfish" for example or "dog lovers keep me awake at night," or something about your view on religion, these friends may be very nasty to you. I would leave them as I did with the few I have and as soon as possible once the answers come in, mark one of them the best response. For some reason, once you start marking best responses, you will get more people answering them.
• United States
24 Jul 09
well my friend send me a PM with the links to your zero responses and I will see what I can do. You ahve made some good points here though.
@olydove (1209)
• United States
20 Jul 09
I have a couple of those myself. There really is nothing you can do with them, they just will sit idle. I myself have gone through the no response section, and even responded to some discussions that are one year old LOL. I've seen a few members recently post that they were shocked, and that some of their really old discussions had been brought back to life. I wouldn't worry over it my friend it might be tomorrow, or a year from now someone will respond eventually.
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• United States
20 Jul 09
Ah my friend you always have a kind word for me. I will double check yours,I try to visit my friends profiles often,but since my husband signed up on our old stomping ground I rarely get the PC LOL
@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
20 Jul 09
Message me the links...and I will do my best to answer them tomorrow. I have a couple of them too. Maybe would could respond to each others. :)
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• United States
24 Jul 09
I am looking threw yours now,hope I can find some I can comment on. Your discussions are so smart by the way!