is making up a real coming back................???

I think that would already lead to a bitterness in the side of your relationships. It is I think because your friendship had already been compromised by those bad words that you have exchanged. Whether you think that your friend is the one who has fault or mistakes in this side of the story, still, you will feel something of not trusting him again. So therefore, your friendship will never be the same again.

Hi apsara, It depends on the relationship, how the persons close to each other, how much sincerity is there etc. In my opinion the persons are exchange hard words means they are just letting out their anger and it clears the mind well later. Once the misunderstanding is over and if the person who misunderstood, can comes out with a sincere apology then I think the relation will be stronger than earlier. It really depends upon the individual how they can cope with the situation and how they were close earlier. The time may teach us to forget and forgive.

This is subjective and depends on the person. As much as it appears that its hard to revive the old relationship, it could very well be deeper the second time altogether for now they know the flip side of it as well! I really think DD, that it depends on the individuals how they accept life and what kind of people they are.

Hi Dear! Your observations more or less appear correct to me. One great scholar had said many years ago that if you break a thread of love and try to re-join the same, a knot would come in between the joining. It is, therefore, possible that if things gets patched up again, there may not be same kind of love and affection, as was earlier. However, I feel that there is no harm in trying to re-align with old friends/relatives. It is possible, if both the parties behave nicely, love and affection can stregthen again.

Well Aps....No human being is perfect.....And each person tend to make some mistake some time or the other which can strain a relationship...But I believe that if there is true love and understanding between two people it is possinle for them to patch up and revive the relationship.....But repetition of the same mistake will cause a break up more easily...and perhaps for ever..Human relationship is much too complicated and delicate...its hard to generalise about it....You have to be alert all the time and learn from esperince each tme.....

It depends on both or all who are involved, if you/they are welling to accept what happened Each person is different and can you or would you want things to go back? I think you can not go back, ever, but you can build over the bast and find a way around it or with it depending on your way

hi apsara i have a habit of not continuing relationship with people who creates problem in my life .. but i will still continue with my sincere smile to the peson the only person in my life that i ever forgived and continued relationship was with my husband .. i have not forgiven my inlaws for what they have done to me but due to my husband i put on a mask as if nothing happened but i will never forgive them cheers

Is making up a real come back? Hummm this is a real good discussion because coincidently I happen to be dealing with this same exact issue only there are no harsh words between us. I don't think that the relationship would be the same after harsh words have been passed between the two parties but I do believe that there is such thing as forgiveness. If both people are willing to put the past behind them then yes I do believe that they can more forward. Love covers all! take care friend, please add me as a friend, Happy mylot!

this is a bit more complicated than this. it depends on the issues that then became the cause of those harsh words. its not the fight but its the cause of that fight which will determine whether the relationship is going to be the same again or not.

Never! As a relation flourishes with a bond of trust. And once its gone, it takes years to earn it back. I myself have gone through a similar situation, when my 'cynical' girlfriend broke up with me just because she thought I have another girlfriend. Though we sorted things later, but its not the same thing now as it used to be. We are not so close now. Doubting deteriorates a relation badly!!

I believe if you are true friends and you know each other very well, then the making up is a real coming back. Because different people have different personalities, it's normal that people will argue for some issues as you have different views on it. But if your are real friends, you can understand each other after making up. True friends relationship are not that easy to broke up.

I seriously go with u...even i hve gone through same situation before.But wen i cleared up the situation i dint get the feel before i used 2 hve.. my policy is dat wen some one close 2 me hurts me i will never talk 2 him.Even if i get compromised i will just take him as a normal frnd...

Yes, I think to forgive someone is a real blessing in our own hearts.