today are your parents annoying to you ?

China
July 20, 2009 8:35am CST
now, i am living with my mother. she used to be very sweet and gentle. but lately, she is just a woman at the change of life. she becomes very easy to get angery. when she is unhappy, she will say nothing and just keep sighing. i hate that i don't know what to do about it. now, i am applying for the further study in Britain and may be i will not see her for about three or four years, so i suppose to be sad now. but because her changeable mood. i want to leave as soon as possible.
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• United States
20 Jul 09
my mother can be trying. but she has a diminished capacity,so it's really not her fault she acts that way. i just have to remind myself of that when she makes me angry.
• China
21 Jul 09
it is very sweet that u can understand your mother. guess i am a bad daughter and i can not stand her!! today, she still doesn't want to talk to me. it makes me feel horrible! really, i don't know what i can do about it. i know somebody will say communication is a good way but i am really not in that talking mood....
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• United States
21 Jul 09
send her flowers out of the blue. that usually catches them off guard,and occasionally breaks the bad mood.
@babshish (1387)
• India
22 Jul 09
Hi, this is generally common with growing age, you should support your mother in every way you can. It happens that after some age, people become more moody. They are like child, they don't think on practically what they are doing and why, it becomes the nature. But think of the time when you were child and your parents (mother) bared with all your foolishness(every child does). Was with you nomatter whatever are the circumstances. You might not even know what all your parents must have done for you because you were very small at that time. Now its your turn to take care of your mother. Just keep yourself in your mother's place, and try to see how you will feel, when your own childrens will do the same with you. And I think you will get the answer to your situation. Sorry but I will suggest you never say that PARENTS are ANNOYING.