am tired of this life ...what should i do now
By whateva
@whateva (786)
India
5 responses
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
20 Jul 09
hi whateva
at 18 you already know what life is .. you are going to miss out a lot of things .. have you been to Disneyland ?? Have you been to Korea ?? or even to Malaysia .. and you say you want to die ..
almost all your age give up on life because of love failure ... oops .. if it is not i am sorry .. but if that is what .. then my advise "GROW UP" there are other things in life than love and there is another man than this
cheers
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@anaida1 (43)
• India
28 Jul 09
Hi Sweety!
I didn't know people can get this depressed with their lives! Ok!
I am not going to preach and I am not going to teach.....!!! Just plain talking ok???
I want you to answer these five questions.....Take your time and respond...I will know if you give me off-the-hook answers ok?1 What do you see when you look at the mirror?
Go to you room. Close the door. Make sure you are alone. Now look at the mirror.....full face.
What do you see??? Who do you see???2 Have long do you sit to see the sunset and the sunrise?
Have you ever watched the sky turn orange and pink at the sunset? Ever been up late?? Ever seen the sky go light and the sunshine filter into your room from your window?
3 Did you ever feel like giving up a penny to the beggar on the street??
Just a yes or no here!!4 How many hours are you awake in the day? How many hours do you sleep?5 Hve you ever helped make a single task, simple for someone you know, with whatever you got???
It could be mom, dad, brother sister, neighbour...or anyone for that matter....did you make a difference to their life.....with your contribution at any time???
Give me the answers....I will tell you what they mean.....n then you will know what I am getting at...
Until then.....pleaseeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!! DO NOT DIE!!!!!Awaiting reply!!
@whateva (786)
• India
28 Jul 09
What do you see when you look at the mirror?
at first i dun really felt like looking at d mirror
when i looked at it...nothing happened i could focus at my face..it was like my image was making me frustrated..when i focused i cried..cous when i look at mirror cous usually i use mirror to practice my smile..wheneva i leave for college i smile to d mirror so that whenever i reply to someones smile it doesnt look fake n weird
.cous my replies r all lost..i dun have control . at my expressions so.. n somehow sumttin blur came up in my subconscious n it ws nt one person but many who were related to me very closely..den i saw my soulmates face who still loves me but recently we broke up
looking at mirror i saw myself but could focus properly
Ever seen the sky go light and the sunshine filter into your room from your window?
yes
Have long do you sit to see the sunset and the sunrise?Have you ever watched the sky
orange and pink at the sunset?
i can waste all my time watching sunset but cous my parents wont stop cllin i have to leave but i have watched the whole sunset a few times from my room window..and once i watched it from roof for sum minutes again cous f parents..
but i love wtahching sky changing colors..but while m doing dat i feel a lil calm n suddenly all d feelings burst out when its over..i jus wnt to cry n die n neva wake up again just wnt to disappear
Ever been up late??
yes
ever feel like giving up a penny to the beggar on the street??
yeh
hours m awake in day..........
21 hours
@whateva (786)
• India
28 Jul 09
i sleep for 2-3 hours
Hve you ever helped make a single task
simple for someone you know with whatever you got???
many times without expecting anything in return (you can also count strangers in that)
yeah i did make a lot f difference for good in many people's lyf but ruined mine
@magic9 (980)
• China
28 Jul 09
hi, cheer up. And if you think someone would help you, then it is right before you----- IT IS YOU yourself. remember the saying? god only help those who help themselves. nothing can not be worked out but it is only a matter of time. Life is like the phase of moom, sometimes full and sometimes cresant. ups and downs are a must process of every single person. hope my message will make you feel a little better.
@jesloveian (30)
• Philippines
29 Jul 09
don't feel that way. Life is precious. Problems are part of our lives. We learn in our problems. And that make us stronger and a better human.
@sushisarah (186)
• Indonesia
7 Sep 09
Hi. I was wanted to die too, lol. But here's some things you must bear in your mind:
1) What you feel now, is just for now. It's for a while. You will pass this somehow. And after you passed this, you will laugh at this matter and think of how fool you were. Trust me, it is not forever.
2) To get a peaceful mind, ask for help from God. Ask God to reduce your burden. You must be willing to release all your problems to God and let God guides you.
3) Your feeling of wanted to die, can exist because probably you are tired or bored with your life right now. Or lack of entertainment. So, go out sometimes, do not lose contact with the world outside your house. Go to the mal, to the hypermarket, see around, buy something to console yourself and to give a little appreciation for yourself.
4) Find out what is the root of the problem, then you can start in to solve it.
I hope this will help. Let us cope this together. It will be okay... Stay in touch. Take care.
