Has Your Love Ever Stop Talking To You?
By msjanet53
@msjanet53 (16)
United States
July 20, 2009 10:44am CST
For those that are in a relationship, I want to know if your love has ever stop talking with you, and if he/she has, for how long?
What was behind it? Was he/she having a bad day? Didn't want to be bother or what?
For the men,help me understand why men get upset or reasons for why you won't speak with the woman you claim you love so much?
2 responses
@ADELIZA07 (47)
• United States
20 Aug 09
Men in general are not very expressive physical wise on what they are feeling and why they feel the way they do, they for the most part absolutely hate being question on the things they do and automatically assume that one knows why they are upset or just completely just stop talking to you. It is actually weird how a man can love you so much but yet have too much pride to allow it to bloom the way it should. For every person it is a different cause it could be something as simple as one bad comment, tight schedule, or just about anything just depends on the guy and time well it just depends on the situation. I remember once about 2 years ago me and my honey stopped talking for about 10months and well it was more because of his pride..so it just varies from guy to guy
@msjanet53 (16)
• United States
20 Aug 09
Hi
I appreciate your comments. It makes a lot of sense to know these things. I'm in a new relationship and the man I'm involved with just shut me out of his life. No reason, no explanation, nothing. Yet, before he stop talking to me I was his Queen, his love, his friend forever, best bud. LOL....however, I can't understand what the shut down was all about. I understand that everyone needs space from time to time to figure out what they really want, but we've been seeing each other for 2 1/2 years now and he's an older man. If he needed to find himself, he should have did that before I entered the picture. This way it would have saved me hours of concern and wondering if I did something wrong.
Thanks a lot for your insight
@khayshenz (1384)
• United States
21 Jul 09
YEAP! Happened about two weeks ago - over a stupid argument. It's one of those times when he needed space to think because he got really mad over what I said. It lasted for a good 48 hours. One of the worse 48 hours of my life. After making up - I told him that we're not doing the whole ignoring thing ever again. That's not the way two people who love each other argue (or not argue). "Punishing" is not the way to get the point across - talk about it then make an agreement to avoid the same argument from rising again. Then move on.
I must say though- making up is THE BEST part! hehehehehe
