My GF often go out with her male friends, I feel angry about it, what can I do??

Hello. of course, knowing that will make you feel angry, but don't be too overreacting because you still don't know the whole story why she's like that. I think, try to have a serious talk with her and be calm. Don't let your emotions reign over you for you might do something that you'll regret later on. Just be calm when approaching her and know the whole story. Then after that, it's all up to you if you're still staying with her,or leave her. Good luck to you

Well, you have to ask yourself something. Do you trust her? Do you know for sure that she is loyal and everything? Then once you have answered that, you'll know that, either one, if you do trust her, you shouldn't feel that angry, but if you do, then talk to her about it, because it is hurting you and making you feel angry. If the answer is that you do not trust her, then I guess, you should consider being single again and getting a new one or just have fun alone.. :) I do not know whether this will help you, or whether it makes sense.. but I would think this is what you can do.. :) Hope this help! Have a great day!

Look my dear friend i would like to tell you one thing. Like all the mylotters said trust her, even i wish to say the samething to you because its at last between you and her and not between her and those guys, sought out things very clear, as there is speed development in each and every aspect of life. What i wish to say is give a second taught to your mind are you yet willing to be with or you do not want to be with her. Make it sure to what ever decision you take will not change in future for any reason because if you are not firm with your decision then there are chances of you changing your decision in the future, so do not do that and later regret saying OH!! no i did a big mistake by doing such and such thing. So what i advice is be clear on your path always and do not get afraid about the fact or the truth HAPPY MYLOTTING

Hello, I am a girl for starters, so maybe this will help you understand things better. I can't tell you what to do but I will tell you that you need to trust her. My hubby and I have been in this kind of problem although it is the other way around. I at first was angry that he wants to go out with the guys, only because of my previous relationships. I learned to trust him because without trust you will then push the other person away. This is what was happening to my hubby and I. Yes it does make me want to know what he is always doing but I can't be like that because he said that with me being like that it will just drive him away from me. I for one don't want that. Plus I believe him when he says that he will never hurt me or do anything to jepordize our marriage. I think what you 2 should do is sit down and discuss what makes you uspset and then let her talk. No matter what you 2 are to sit because this will then keep you 2 from fighting really bad. Just let her know that you feel hurt that she goes out with her guy and girl friends, that you would like it if you 2 went out sometimes alone. After you mention this ask her what she thinks about the idea, if she says ok then allow her to have her few days alone with her friends as you should do the same. If you feel that it gets out of hand then maybe set up certain days for the both of you to have your free time with the friends. Like say you get to go out the first friday of each month and say the 3rd saturday of each month and allow her to have the first saturday of each month and the 3rd friday of each month and the other days well you should know, it is your's and her time alone. This is something that my hubby and I are working on trying to do, well almost like this. But remember "TRUST HER" If you do that you 2 will be able to get through anything that comes in between your relationship. Good Luck and I hope that this helps. Happy Mylotting

in my opinion, first to talk with her abt the fact. why she told the lies. if she was only afraid of ur mistaking. maybe u still have the chance to continue. but if she told u the lies cause only she wanted to transfer her feeling or was trasferrign the feelings, u should let her go. cause if the girl's feeling is no longer existed, even if how deep u love her, it wont be a happy bond, i think. dont cheat ourselves. love is so pure and beautiful.

Love bases on trust. Sometimes your girlfriend needs her own space and time. You need to trust her, and let her free sometimes. There is nothing wrong to have fun with some friends.

First and foremost, let go of your anger first, then go talk to your girl. Clear with her what's going on, tell her you don't like her sleeping in a male companion's house, no matter how close she is to the guy. If she feels that she can't come home, maybe she can call you and you can pick her up to take you home. Be open and tell her how you feel. Try not to give in to your anger cause it will only cause a fight between you two if you go to her in anger. I do not think that its unreasonable for you to feel anger or resentment towards her blatant disregard for your relationship, and as in any relationship, open communication is a must if you want your relationship to last, so go to her and talk to her, find out what's going on and let her know your thoughts with regards to what she's been doing. NOw if she tells you she can't stop sleeping over at the guys house, then you have got a lot to think of for yourself. Can you trust her not to do anything with the guy, can you trust the guy? I used to sleep over at various friends house when I was single, but never alone and never when I have a boyfriend. But different strokes for different folks right? So if she says to you that she cannot promise to stop sleeping over at 'frineds' house then I suggest you ask yourself if you can live with that, if you can then good for you, if not, I guess then you better start practising living your life without this girl

Well xiaoyi, I have to lay it straight to you. Does she treat you as someone special? You may love her and all, but if she is sleeping over at some other guys' places, then something is just not right. You need to sit down and ask her why she's doing all that and that you are unhappy with her behaviour. But if she continues with the behaviour, you have to ask yourself whether you trust her enough to allow her to sleep over at her friends' places and whether you want to put up with her behaviour. All the best!

I think you could try to explain to her this way: What if you were her and always go out with a bunch of girls, would you get upset about it? And I think if I were you, I would tell her straight that you cannot accept she always goes out with a bunch of guys and even stays out with them.

in my opinion, first to talk with her abt the fact. why she told the lies. if she was only afraid of ur mistaking. maybe u still have the chance to continue. but if she told u the lies cause only she wanted to transfer her feeling or was trasferrign the feelings, u should let her go. cause if the girl's feeling is no longer existed, even if how deep u love her, it wont be a happy bond, i think. dont cheat ourselves. love is so pure and beautiful.

Is it as small cut in chin? IF it is why do you feel bad? I think you can go out with her and if you still dont like it, tell her how you feel. After all, she should at least care about the way you feel before acting or doing anything, what do you think?

ask wats going on and if shes seeing anyone else ask her if you could hang out with them one nite coz all that could be happening is she justs wants to hang out with them and instead of hanging out with you ALL the time how many nites does she go out with them and they could be for all you know just some really close friends for but for her to sleep out side with out knoking on the door she most likly will be cheating on you but before you go and break up with you or anything get her to sit down and you need to talk to her one on one and you need to ask her questions other wise youll neverknow she could break up with you coz you deserv someone better than that.

I think responses here will linger around the word 'trust'. It is difficult for you. At the same time too, I think she needs to consider your feeling. If she stays overnight once, fine. But too often? Obviously she does not take your tolerance seriously. I think you should see someone else.

have you gone out with her and her friends? try to make yourself a part of everything she does.

Sounds like she's quite a social person and it seems that you are very much in love with her.. In relationship situation, I feel it's best to be honest about each other feelings. If we don't like certain things that our partner is doing, we should just talk it out. I'm sure she will be understanding about your feelings and will try to cut down on her social activities.. Or you could try to follow her on some occasions.

It's understandable that you're angry. In the same situation I will be too... There's no point in pretending we all trust our partners... we never totally trust our partners! Don't blindly trust her. NEVER blindly trust anybody. Blind trust is the biggest mistake you can make. You need to SEE she is worthy of trust. Without getting angry, communicate (more important than TRUST) to her about her 'sleep overs'. Tell her your concerns with regards to her sudden disappearances. I mean anything could've happened to her. You need to know, because you care and love her. Don't sound obvious that you're angry and even jealous. Say you worry when she doesn't call you about where she is. It's NOT right for your girl friend to sleep in another mans house... nothing needs to happen to make you angry. Nothing may have happened, but sooner or later it will. If you don't do anything, and blindly trust her, then she'll think she can get away with anything! She doesn't deserve trust: 1) She doesn't even call you when she's sleeping "outside" 2) She said she is with female friends, yet 3) She stays with men Tell her what kind of impression you're getting. Although DO NOT step over the line and accuse her of being unfaithful... yet. Because you don't want her thinking you're insecure and jealous of her. So far you have absolutely no evidence, although what else can a "cute" woman be doing at a mans house? Look for the signs that she is lying. If you see no signs, then it'll make you feel better... it's honestly better than hiding your true feelings and trusting a woman that sleeps in another mans house. If you don't do this you're going to explode in rage, which will actually tear your relationship apart. Good luck, and happy myLotting. :)

simply left her friendship and found true friends

Dude, I undersand what you mean...I for myself undergo that kind of hassle with my girlfriend and i have other friends who are even worse than I am...but then personally I learned something that helped us both in our relationship as a couple...We both talked about it and did some adjustments...On my part, I tried not to be over protective and give her some freedom...although on her part, she limited herself from going out with her guy friends past weee hours...and she always tells me where she goes..and she understands that I definitely dont like it when she drinks with guys so she stopped that as well...although she does drink only when we're together...I suggest you should talk with your girl and tell her what bothers you when she hangs out with other guys even if they are so called just friends...

has anything changed in your relationship? i mean, is she still happy, and more importantly, are you? in this situation you need to find out if it is completely innocent, and if it isnt, find out why she feels the need to lie. it could be a complete misunderstanding and she could actually just be staying over with them as friends. but dude, it doesnt sound too hopeful...i know if i was staying with different girls all the time, i wouldnt just be sleeping......

Leave her buddy, you don't trust her, and the way you are telling things shows me that you are not going to even if you found proofs to show that things were otherwise. Trust is everything in a relationship. She may have lied to you to keep you from hurting but still you can never be sure about someone's actual intentions.