Compromise....did you ever promised anyone?

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
Philippines
July 20, 2009 12:18pm CST
Do you have any bestfriend,or closefriend,or loved ones who entrusted you a secret and made you promised not to tell it to anyone.."crossed your heart till death". If so,how does it feel being trusted with a dark secret(of course i will not going to ask what is that secret,it will not be a secret anymore lolz) Seriously,how does it feels my friend?
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3 responses
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
22 Jul 09
It feels so nice to be trusted.We must be careful that trust would not be broken. We must have a strict conviction not to divulge to anyone even to our partner specially if would be so confidential that it would matters morality..that is one of my principle in life. In fact there were so many instances with my partner that we had a big quarrel by not telling her the secret I know. She only knew after that secret revealed that i knew in the first place...that's where the quarrel starts...
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
22 Jul 09
Okay..what if by revealing the most confidential secrets to your husband and your husband divulge it and every one of you got troubled, whose going to blame your husband or you? How will you explain that to your best friend?
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
23 Jul 09
ohhhh i am sorry friend, maybe I was just confused about secrets that you meant. It is really personal...whewww you're right maybe of too many secrets...I am sorry again
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Jul 09
opppsss...i think we had a misunderstanding here my friend.What i am saying is my own secrets,if i had secrets from my past i would be revealing it to my partner from the start. If that is a friends secret,there is no way i would tell my partner about it,that is why i say's..." too many secrets to be revealed"... Whew
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@busky5 (3164)
• Thailand
26 Jul 09
Yes,i do.Sometime i would not do on my promising which it made me have a trouble.I think it is not good if we didn't do when we promised someone.I don't want to tell the story because i don't know what i will tell first.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Jul 09
Hello friend, It is really hard to keep a promised and more hard to break a promise either.It is like crossing a bridge made of rope. Thanks for your responce my friend
• India
20 Jul 09
It feels really good when my friends trust me with their secrets. I have a group, we are four best of bestest friends and we can share anything with each other. We tell each other every little thing we do (and also the big ones LOL) No matter how deep dark the secret is we know that we can trust each other.:D
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
20 Jul 09
It is good to have friends we can count on,like keeping secrets.Congrats you had friends like them. Thanks for your responce friend