Infidelity

This is from my observation. A family becomes broken home when a husband or wife commit an adultery or cheating with his partner. Even inside married their is still lot of temptation. If both partner have little self control and lost their love for each other. Their is a tendency to find someone who fill up his or her desires or need, such as when they feel sad, or the partner lost care, and attention are much focus on the children. Aside from it the influences of bad friends or fellow workers have brought or worsen a family turmoil to happen when your partner becomes more interested to explore other person who will gladly share or a total giver without giving him or her total satisfaction or joy which her partner cannot fully fill his needs. If both accept each partner forgiveness or real repentance, then a potential separation or threatened divorce may be stop. Some stay for their children and for companionship but with less love for each other. but, if negotiation or any compromises with both partner are no longer effective it is better to separate but remain friendly to support their children and decide for amicable settlement of their child support.

I believe that lots of times this happens due to a breakdown in communcation and not telling the significant other how you feel and what you need to be whole as a couple. Usually a person is intellectually stimulated and hasnt been made to feel special by their partner.

There are people who have very low self-control and they tend to get swayed whenever they find a more attractive and desirable person. Either they completely lost their interest in their partner or they are just plain foolish who loves that kind of game. In every relationship both partners must be willing to keep it fresh to keep it going despite shortcomings or adversities. I guess a person who truly loves another can never afford to hurt his loved one..