What is the right marrying age?
By levanueb
@levanueb (132)
Philippines
July 20, 2009 10:53pm CST
Hi guyz... in your opinion what is the right age for a serious and lifetime commitment?
3 responses
@Trinquette (156)
• United States
21 Jul 09
I would say that it depends on the individual, for women perhaps around 25-28, for men maybe not until their mid thirties...but as early as 25-28 as well... is the best time though... to at least wait until that age. Getting married to young can lead to comlications. It really depends on the person and the circumstance. However there is so much divorce these days, I don't know why, but marriage is hard work its not all candies, flowers and fluffy clouds... one has to work at the relationship, like a friendship or job. Sure love and other fun things come with it... but it isn't easy and as long as one knows that going in and really wants to try and make the marriage work from the onset then it might not matter the age... but having at least a High School Diploma is helpful. Its really better to wait until after at least one person in the relationship has a career that pays, especially if you want to have children someday.
@levanueb (132)
• Philippines
23 Jul 09
I agree with you.. it really depends on the individual. But I will be getting married this year, and at the age of 30. I am proud to marry the man i love and the one that truly loves me. Both of us have stable jobs so I know that this marriage will work because this was bounded with love and respect. The best thing is that the center of our relationship is God and that I believe is the important aspect that every couple should consider. Thank you my friend for your reply... God Bless!!!
@azza12342 (49)
• Australia
24 Jul 09
I would say it does also depend on the person and how much they are in love. I would say for me if your truely in "love" then maybe 22, but who knows i mean most people break up so marriage might not be the best option for them, it just depends, theres also the fact that if you can afford it or not, i mean its alot of money to just have sitting there.